People say to stop looking and you'll find a bf/gf. How to stop yourself from looking? Everytime I do, I just feel like I gave up and then start thing some more. I keep busy with work and hobbies, but it gets hard to ignore it when I see others with someone. Any tips? Could I be wanting someone since I don't have too many close friends...maybe like 2 or 3?
2007-02-07 14:52:57 · 13 answers · asked by . 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I ask myself this exact same question! People always say that 'love will come around when you least expect it', but it's impossible to stop wanting it and thinking about it! All you can do is try to consume the majority of your thoughts with other things... Keep yourself busy, and love will find you...
Also, I only have one close friend, and I feel that's why I long for a boyfriend so much. Your not just longing for a lover, but more friends as well, and you want a boyfriend to fill both of those roles, which makes you desire one even more...
2007-02-07 14:58:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lonelynes is a terrible thing, espcialy if you trying to over come someone you love and lost. I find that it does not pay duel on the past because it henders the future. Get your self into some thing you like and immerse your self in it and try to relax, it will happen when the time is right. May be you are not ready and you have to prepare your self for a new love. Clear the cob web and get rid of the spider then you can start a new.
2014-07-10 00:50:58 · answer #2 · answered by frnpierre 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Millions have this issue--no big deal. I can feel your concerns but I can only tell you that nature will always take its course. NEVER force an issue like this---and you can't stop the looking---hard to stop a thing like that. You'll find someone--just take a hard look at yourself. your appearance, your personality, your approachablility---be proud of who you are, stand tall, smile and be nice. You'll be fine---HONEST
2007-02-07 22:59:29 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its hard beleive me i have been trying since i can remember, and there is nothing i can find i thought it was imposible until my sister done it she just got so fed up and she gave up she has now been with my brother in law for about 5 years they have bought a house together and there getting married soon they also have a beautiful baby boy who is about to turn 2
2007-02-07 23:05:47 · answer #4 · answered by kelz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to expand your social circle. Network among your friends' friends. Throw a party and ask the three to invite people. Once you have a larger amount of friends, you won't need to be part of a couple.
2007-02-07 22:56:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
without going too deep on you bro, i think things tend to develop on the girl front when you get on with your life. a cool way to meet new people is too join some kind of club ie sports, mountaineering, hill walking, drama, watersports, film society's. check out courses, clubs and the like on the net and concentrate first on your local area . you're bound to meet loads of new people, good luck man!!
2007-02-07 23:05:42 · answer #6 · answered by mark b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the way i do it, is to just stop caring. ive reached the point to where i find all the great things in life when i am single. and ive found the point to where i just dont care. when you find the point to where you dont care it will all just fall in your lap. believe me, ive been hit on one too many times but i push them all away. just keep yourself busy and you mind clear. i do exercise to keep my mind more on me and not on everyone else. maybe not finding to point to where you dont care like me, but find something that makes you relax and it will all come into place, gota be patient...hope that helps
2007-02-07 22:58:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need someone so you will stop looking others.Bcos you feel lonely.Try to be open minded and talk to your freind or get some new freinds.
2007-02-07 23:02:59 · answer #8 · answered by ocean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with wanting to find that special someone rite? Just don't rush things, they will come when you least expected them to...dun give up :)
2007-02-07 22:59:02 · answer #9 · answered by vivhikki? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a hobby or do some volunteer work, focus on helping other people.
It's not all about you.
2007-02-07 22:56:18 · answer #10 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋