I really really really like this guy, but he likes another girl. and i know that i am truly truly in love with him because every time our eyes meet my heart sinks because it is so sad. and i know he doesn't love me back but i just can't get over him. what should i do?
2007-02-07 14:51:11 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also, he does know who i am and we are really good friends!
2007-02-07 15:08:50 · update #1
ps...... i don't just like him cuz he is hott but because he is really nice and sweet and funny and smart and PERFECT
2007-02-07 15:11:44 · update #2
your just too attached to a thing that you feel chooked. relax, the more you're dying to have what you want (e.i. girls) the more they will run away from you.
you might not see it but our bodies have an innate energy a.k.a. aura, your obssession for a thing could release tremendous aura, the bad thing is, it pushes away things it hits unlike magnets. the more you chase for a thing the more it run away from you. so be unattached but not be disenterested;
(e.i.) like applying a job & you're rejected;
attached people will say, i will die, i am not hired, i am a loser, i don't know what to do now that the job i longed for has gone.
while unattached people will probably say; okey, i didn't get it but one way or another i will find a job, & i will make it better next time.
when you fight life, life always win.
don't be a miser.. the world is okey as it is, sun rises & sun sets.
be unattached but be interested & someday they'll come to you in bunches, it's gonna be feast or famine. smile and the world will smile back at you. (',')
2007-02-07 16:42:15 · answer #1 · answered by vincent van go 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmmm, that's Romeo and Juliette. Sweet. If he has no interest in you, then you're better of thinking that he's a jerk. No point in making him jealous because it obviously wouldn't work. No point in trying to get him to notice you because, again, he already saw you.
Best bet is to avoid running into him. I know someone whom I'd jump fences for, but couldn't be with. It hurts, for a while. But we always want what we can't have. My suggestion to you hun, try finding someone else to care for. Don't make it a rebound type. Simply look for a boyfriend or a fun type. This way you'll slowly forget about this guy, and make up a new world for yourself.
Remember, everyone wants a Ferrari, but not everyone can have one. You don't see people going crazy, they find ways to get over it. Good luck.
PS: Unless he's not happy with his current lady, you can't bud in. The most you can do, is to be his friend, and he will really like that if you're the nice type;). Guys always want more lady friends. And who knows ... he may actually see you in a different way ;).
2007-02-07 22:58:50 · answer #2 · answered by lycan_footballer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went through this too, i know how u feel. what i did, was i hung out with my friends as much as possible and tried not to think about him. also, try to keep on the look out for other guys u might like. there are plenty of boys that might be better for you. a while later, i gradually got over him. if he doesn't like you, get over him and find someone that likes you for who u are. good luck!!!
2007-02-07 22:59:22 · answer #3 · answered by purplepup220 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look n2 other people. He's not the only one, and you know they say everything happens 4 a reason. So, how do u know if you get with him, he's not what you want. LOOKS aren't everything. Do some things that make u happy 2 sort of get over him.
2007-02-07 22:58:51 · answer #4 · answered by S4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its very hard to get over a man u love that dont love u in return, it all takes time im sorry their is not cure as to what to make your heart feel, but . maybe if u try and find someone elce, this may help u a little. ok im sorry i cant be more of help for u , good luch
2007-02-07 22:57:18 · answer #5 · answered by louise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are two things you can do:
1) give it up--you deserve a guy who will love you back! change your attention to other guys and forget about this present guy...
2) chase him with 100% effort... it's a great risk you take, but if after a few years he loves you back, you've won your great price... needs lots of persistence and it won't be easy at all...
if you take number two, you actually know the extent of your "love" for him... well, good luck in your decision...
2007-02-07 23:02:11 · answer #6 · answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi cutiepie7
I really feel for you and love does hurt soo much but it has to be said that if you really love him you mite want to try not to make your self available for awhile. I think I know that your hart is hurting and you feel like your stomach has been cut from you. You owe it to your self to find a friend to talk to and cry . You really need to give your self a chance to find a persone who is in to you. All my best from one broken hart to another. Big hugs
2007-02-07 23:03:56 · answer #7 · answered by Young Will 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be true to him by letting him know what you really feel. After that you will take some stress off your back. Then you never know maybe you guys can become more than friends?
2007-02-07 22:58:31 · answer #8 · answered by florecitarivera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know... it's unbelievable hard to get over someone that doesn't return those feelings. Does he know who you are? If he has no idea of your existence, chances are he's not going to come to his senses.
You just have to move on. Try to find another available guy to focus on.
You have so much love to give. Share it with someone who will love you back.
2007-02-07 22:57:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
get over him. That is the worst thing you can do to your heart right now, love someone when he has a someone. Im not trying to sound bad about it, but it would be best for you because that way you can maintain a friendship and not hurt yourself.
2007-02-07 22:53:53 · answer #10 · answered by agentmike45 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋