I have posted a fiew questions on a boy.I said I really like him,and everyone said he liked me to,but today I just found out that yesterday he started dating on of my friends.Do you think hes trying to make me jealuse,or does he not like me?He didnt even tell me that he was going out with her.But I dont think that they will last long because they dont even talk to each other, What do I do?
2007-02-07 14:46:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is with one of your friends -- even if he likes you -- you need to move on. If he is trying to make you jealous, then he is playing games, and you don't need that. Otherwise, he is your friend's man and you should have too much self respect to go after her sloppy seconds!
Find someone new!
2007-02-07 14:50:40 · answer #1 · answered by Jamir 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there is nothing you can do. And as for the jealous thing i dint think that's what he is trying to do. But this sounds like what happened with me. I really liked a girl, but i didn't know if she liked me back, (she actually did) so i just went out with another girl because i knew the she liked me. That relationship didn't last long, and I eventually asked the first girl out and she said yes!! We are still together to this day!! So my advice is to stay really close with this guy and wait for the breakup.
2007-02-07 22:52:47 · answer #2 · answered by gotansas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're "going out" but they don't talk to each other? That doesn't make any sense. Any guy who likes YOU but dates your friend just to make you jealous is very immature and not at all worth your time. He could be jeopardizing your friendship with the other girl because he's not mature enough to just try and date you. Forget him, find a more mature guy. Your friendship comes first.
2007-02-07 22:51:03 · answer #3 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait and watch for some more days. Use your diplomatic sense when you talk to your friend with whom the boy went on a date. May be it was not a date even. I hope he's trying to get more closer to you.
2007-02-07 22:58:54 · answer #4 · answered by Tanmay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two options: Yes he's trying to make you jealous in which case he's not good enough for you because thats just plain mean, OR, He really likes her and not you. Either way, move on and find someone better because he's just not that into you. Sorry hun.
2007-02-07 22:50:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to date a guy that is trying to date your friend. This boy did not even show you enough respect to find another date outside of your friends circle. Dump him and move on.
2007-02-07 22:51:38 · answer #6 · answered by Shock and Awe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at this point there is nothing you can do,he may or may not like you but you wont really know until you ask.and now it just became a little more tricky with him dating a friend,if things dint work out with the two of them i would have to talk to the friend first,so she doesn't feel anger towards you
2007-02-07 22:52:03 · answer #7 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but I dont think he likes you. Why would someone who likes you date your friend to make you jealous? Thats just ridiculous. Sweetheart, find yourself someone who deserves cause obviously he doesnt. Doesnt even respect you enough to tell you. Move on.
2007-02-07 22:59:40 · answer #8 · answered by diamant152001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there too. You are worth respect. When a relationship does not have honesty, then it is not worth keeping it going. It will hurt, but only shortly, move on- there will be someone who respects your feelings.
2007-02-07 22:51:05 · answer #9 · answered by billionaire2b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd move on. Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? He's dating your friend! Don't save yourself to be his consolation prize if things don't work out with her. Give yourself the respect you deserve and ask another guy out!
2007-02-07 22:50:39 · answer #10 · answered by varmitterminator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋