theres this girl at my high school her parents are really poor and abusive so she never wants to be by them she doesnt have anywhere else to go so she makes deals with a different guy everyday its pretty simple you give her dinner and a place to spend the night and shower and a ride to school she sleeps with you AND is nice to your family
well i brought her home the other night and i know it was just part of her "job" but she totally impressed my family, she was good with my little sister and amazing to everyone and now i think i like her but i dont think shes a relationship girl.
should i tell her how i feel and live wit me or what ?
2007-02-07 14:45:15 · 17 answers · asked by man 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her how u feel... Help her she needs u.
2007-02-07 14:51:25 · answer #1 · answered by Megan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off I want to thank you for looking past the facade, and seeing a human. Secondly I hope to god you didn't take her up on the offer to sleep with her. If you like her tell her.
Here is the deal though, really she should talk to the authorities and get help. She is heading down a very wrong road, and if everyone knows this why isn't anything being done? Has she ever went to the police for help?
Theres so much left out here. First things first if you want to help her, really you need to tell someone about her, a school counsler or police. Your right she will end up dead or something else. Please go and talk to someone about her.
If you like her, there is no reason not to tell her, and see what happens. She may hope out of doing this she can finally find someone who will see past what she puts out for others to see and really like her.
Be careful though, she probably has had a lot of problems and finds trust a hard thing to deal with, and emotionally who knows how she is.
2007-02-07 14:55:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you in fact want a relationship with this girl you need to seriously think about all of the emotional baggage she will be bringing along. Chances are, she isn't emotionally stable and she needs major therapy sessions and counseling. Also, she is ONLY 15, her parents can legally take her away from you if you let her live with you so you have to be really prepared for anything. Ask your parents if they want to get involved in helping her find a better home or if they would like to adopt her into the family...you can't do this alone if you choose to do it. Make sure you can help her and get her the help she needs if you do decide to take her in.
2007-02-07 14:52:13 · answer #3 · answered by Isabella's Mommy Expecting #2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, if you cared about her, you should have not slept with her. you acted as all those other guys.
Secondly, she need help. Maybe she already contracted anSTD somewhere.Take her to the counseling center of your school, they will be able to tell her how much she is endangering her life, and will advice her to go to the hospital.
Finally, if you really do care about her, tell her that she sould not "sell" herself the way she does. If you ask her to live with u, she definitely will, because she is anyway looking for a shelter. You should try a different approach, like asking her to go back to her house, and try to work things out with her parents. showing that you like her would be assisting her during that process of resinsertion. Good luck.
2007-02-07 14:53:53 · answer #4 · answered by piksy_rose1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People make me sick.They need to quit using her,she probably thinks thats the only way to get someone to care for her.She needs someone to help her and show her she is worth more than that.Man I HOPE its you.Even if you dont want a relationship with her, please help her.Could you at least talk to your family to try to get some help?This kind of thing breaks my heart.Abuse to a minor or anybody for that matter is unacceptable.She might get mad if you tell your family whats really going on,but mad is better than dead.I give you my word I will be praying for her situation.
2007-02-07 15:04:26 · answer #5 · answered by rockman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, so she is 15 and is sleeping her way into a bed?
CPS needs to be called. Contact a church family that will host her in their home. They do it all the time.
So knowing this- did you take advantage of her sexually as well?
Help her by talking to a professional and a minister. She deserves respect from someone.
2007-02-07 14:50:24 · answer #6 · answered by Denise W 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If her parents are really abusive then she should go to the authorities. What she is doing could be seen as prostitution, especially since she's underage, and anyone who "helps" her could be arrested, along with her. Help her get help, not continue this behavior that will hurt her in the long run.
2007-02-07 14:48:50 · answer #7 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dont. that's good that you've that concern, it signifies that, unlike maximum men, you surely care a out her and your causes for sexual acts are out of love and not in any respect hormones. trust me, Im an same way. i have not actualy lengthy gone as far as you've, i have not even kissed each person, yet with the perfect woman i became with, I loved her a lot and he or she knew about my sexual innovations and he or she knew that the objective became love and that i does not dream of utilising her. She understood this and concept i became sweet for it. This woman help you to carry close even as she's waiting, or perhaps as that element comes, you'll comprehend, she'll open as a lot as you emotionally, and also you'll wow her inclusive of your loving personality. you may supply her the most romantic experience of her existence.
2016-11-26 01:32:55 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, tell her how you feel. Maybe she is a relationship girl, but she is just doing what she has to do to keep herself alive and to make herself feel loved for once, even if it is just for a night. Talk to her about it, deep down everyone wants to feel wanted regardless of whether they admit it or not.
2007-02-07 14:53:13 · answer #9 · answered by melody g 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to a guidance councillor at school. if she is sleeping with a different guy every night, this is essentially child prostitution. this is so wrong. she doesn't need to be used for sex. this won't solve her problems.. she needs a real family that can help her and take care of her..
2007-02-07 14:55:08 · answer #10 · answered by Jeff 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please becareful, she a street girl, and have many males friends,even pimps who offer clothes,a place and foods, for exchanges for sex. Check the facts, before jumping into a big problems. The laws she a minor, and 15 can get you 20 or more in JAILS!!!!
2007-02-07 15:00:00 · answer #11 · answered by riccibigm47 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋