why do guys act different towards you after having sex and not being in a relationship?

Question

i have this friend see...weve been friends for a while and recently we made some sweet lovin. now hes being weird. what oh what should i do because i like him and i think its mututal and he told me that he likes me too so whats going on am i just a one night stand or is there hope?

Answer 1

We men like a chase, but once the mystery is gone, so are we!

Move on, and he might come back to you, but if he doesn't, then your worst fears are true and you were a one night stand.

Answer 2

It sounds a lot like this could just be a one night stand. It's happened to me too...

Most of the time when you start going out with someone there's still some mystery left...

For example, you might not know what their sexual performance is like, and finding out is fun/exciting. That's PART of the reason why a relationship is fun. It's a small but important part of what makes a relationship worthwhile.

Once the mystery has been revealed, there's nothing that intrigues him anymore. Also, there's always the possibilty that he really doesn't like a girl who's so open.

Yes, you've told him that you're interested in him, and yes he's told you that he's interested in you, but having sex with him might have changed his mind. Maybe he wants someone with more boundaries...or maybe he's afraid that he's seriously hurt you and doesn't know how to act around you...

There are endless possibilities. Contacting him indirectly might be the best idea at this point...it'll help avoid any awkward moments...but it's you're choice.

:)

I hope everything works out!

Answer 3

You can try to talk to him and ask him what is up. Tell him how you feel, and if you want more then tell him. he may not react the way you want him too, but he's prbably feeling a little weird about what to say too. Good luck.