he says he needs time to figure out if he can trust me, but I didn't ask for this guy to hit on me, what can i do to make him believe me or should i move on?
2007-02-07 14:20:31 · 14 answers · asked by carmelita 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He should be off limits anyway. Any guy that is already tied to another girl (especially a friend) and tries to kiss you is a jerk. He's playing with your mind. You definitely need to move on. He isn't worth it all.
2007-02-07 14:22:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you really need to work out if you have been flirting with his friend, even subconsiously. If you believe you really haven't given him any signs, then your boyfriend has no right to respond that way and maybe you should move on. If you realise that maybe some of your actions could have been seen as flirting, then explain that you meant nothing by it and try and make amends.
2007-02-07 22:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing you can do is explain yourself to your boyfriend and give it some time. Don't press the issue and let it be. If he wants to break up with you over this then the best thing is to do is leave him a lone right now. Maybe later he will come to his sense and give yall relationship another chance. Me love like we love and get hurt also. So, you just have to put yourself in his shoes and think about what you would have done.
2007-02-07 22:27:47 · answer #3 · answered by pinkish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand any of this...did you make out with him or not. How does someone try to make out with you? Did you tell your boyfriend once he tried to do this...if not, that can be bad too. I think you need to move on with this one.
2007-02-07 22:25:45 · answer #4 · answered by chyna0069 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be serious and have a "what the hell" attitude and say something like "What the hell, are you seriously thinking i'd want to make out with him? If i wanted to be with him, then why would i be with you? because i love you and if i wanted to be with him then i'd break up"
that's a little detailed and i don't rly know your peronality or how you act with each other, but that would prolly get the point across to me. think about it, see what other answers come
2007-02-07 22:36:57 · answer #5 · answered by bonto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your choice if you really like the guy try to confidence him by hiding him and be in a room all alone and try to make his friend flirt with you and tell your boyfriend you really like him and you'd never cheat on him ;) wink,wink
2007-02-07 22:28:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess you did not give him any .....He wants to go out an get it from someone else ......You say he tried to make out with you ??? ? your boyfriend ??? That is what a boyfriend does hun ...you have never heard that is all us guys think about ....
2007-02-07 22:27:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please remember that women keep any of your personal writings and can possibly use it against you when you meet someone new!
Yes, I have situations when females have shown their man's letter to the new girl which sets the bar TOO HIGH for you and gets your new girl JEALOUS from the get-go!
Beware of the ya-ya sisterhood.
2007-02-07 22:24:59 · answer #8 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duh - you have a boyfriend! How can he trust you if you still have a boyfriend but want to be with him - this just shows that you can be unfaithful. You have to lose the boyfriend. If you are interested in someone else, whatever you have with your boyfriend will not last.
2007-02-07 22:27:01 · answer #9 · answered by Sue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say if he gets bent all out of shape over something this simple...yall souldnt be together anyways...but do what you feel is right.
2007-02-07 22:23:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋