but neither of us can let go. We had a unhealthy relationship w/ alot of fighting. We have been broken up for about 2 weeks. In which we have faught twice. Last night he came over and we were both drunk and had a fight. It is unlike my behavior, but I was grabbing him by his leather jacket and it got tore. He left. Now I don't know if I should call him or not. And if I should offer to pay for his jacket. As I was being a jerk!
2007-02-07 14:16:01 · 5 answers · asked by icom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't care for that much drama, myself.
Not that I have never been friends with an ex, but I wrote the last one off when she had somebody else call my house to get info on the wifi router I set up for her instead of calling herself.
I'd have written you off a long time ago.
2007-02-07 14:21:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually you BOTH were jerks.
He was a jerk for coming over your house.
You were a jerk for letting him in.
Leave him the HELL alone and MOVE ON.
God didn't design you to be with a toxic man. Don't take phone calls. Don't answer the door. Find someone new or explore a hobby that you are passionate about.
You are probably going back to your toxic ex because you are (1) bored and (2) fearful of the unknown.
2007-02-07 22:28:20 · answer #2 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should definatley be the bigger person in this situation and call and tell him that your sorry for wat happened last nigth and u should offer to pay for the jacket. and if it was a unhealthy relationship then its probably better for yall to not date but maybe be friends who stay in touch dont totally ignore him becuz then youll only drive yourself crazy but talk to him sometimes and ask how things are going maybe if things are goin ok maybe u could hang out as friends sometimes
2007-02-07 22:23:33 · answer #3 · answered by simply lovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay for his jacket-- He will appreciate it and maybe like you as a friend again
I just ignores my x and we were friend's for awhile and then we got over eachother
2007-02-07 22:25:10 · answer #4 · answered by Underdog2478 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you 2 have kids, please don't let them see you fight. try to stay a bit calm, it will spoil your whole day. try to avoid seeing him if necessary.
2007-02-07 22:20:52 · answer #5 · answered by birdsdafly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋