How do you get used to being single again after being with someone for almost 2 years? It was a mutual decision but now it just feels kinda empty. I just need some tips, I guess to kinda get used to the single life again.
2007-02-07 14:11:15 · 12 answers · asked by B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its the worst feeling at first.Time does make it go away.Busy yourself with work and things you enjoy doing.Limit your time alone for a while.Ive been single for quite a while and I will be honest, it gets old.Right now you need to heal from this one and just keep moving forward.Two years is an emotional investment that wont go away overnight but it will pass.Best of luck
2007-02-07 15:35:59 · answer #1 · answered by rockman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone after they end a relationship with someone fill empty and lonely. You must know something that everyone is alone in this world. We create our relationship is you to decide if you want a relation on someone beside you when you need that can be a freind,family members or even stranger who you can built a relationship. You decide to walk alone or with company cos at last u wil de alone again. Nobody goes with anybody until the end of our path.
2007-02-07 14:51:27 · answer #2 · answered by ocean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people lose themselves in drink , drugs hobbies, work , friends , church,new loves, just about anything to forget those empty feelings..
you don't get used to it. over night .It is a day by day thing.. Where you have to be brave sometimes just to hold back the tears .I suggest. when ever someone asks how are you handling it say,' I got though it yesterday,I'll get through it today.Say it often enough.. you'll believe,,.And in time the hurt goes and someone else almost always pops up to makes things better.
2007-02-07 14:38:12 · answer #3 · answered by nervous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really hard at first. I been single for 4 years now. As far as to say I have had sex but not somebody to love me for who I am. Here are some tips: get a job working at night like 9p-7a or 10p-7a M-F, work sometimes on the weekend at night, go out with friends sometimes, watch tv, find a hobby that you enjoy.
2007-02-07 14:19:15 · answer #4 · answered by Proud Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just hang out wit ur friend n slowly yull get used to being single n den wen u least expect it yull make friends wit a guy dat ur gunna like
2007-02-07 14:19:27 · answer #5 · answered by sccrthugz4life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mind over matter.
As a rule, when one door
closes, another door opens.
It's a big world out there.
Get interested in it.
And good luck.
2007-02-07 14:22:29 · answer #6 · answered by kyle.keyes 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do something for yourself that you've put off because you were thinking about what someone else would think or how it would affect them...and if you say there's nothing like that, you're probably lying to yourself!
2007-02-07 14:16:56 · answer #7 · answered by imadumas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive never had nobody and i don't expect to have anybody. sure id like have a girl but oh well i can't do anything about them not finding me attractive. its just a fact of life.
2007-02-07 14:16:26 · answer #8 · answered by joethemetaldude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to make yourself busy ... learn to do something new or join a gym class or get together with your other single friends
2007-02-07 14:25:41 · answer #9 · answered by Baby G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will get use to it, believe me. just like million of others it O.K. to be single. you will meet that right person when you lease expect it.
2007-02-07 14:16:04 · answer #10 · answered by birdsdafly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋