well im IN LOVE w/ my man...i really wanna "do it" but im scared that he'll go freakin tell the whole school but i dont want my sex life 2 B like an open book...plus can anyone tell me how 2 do it??
2007-02-07 14:04:42 · 10 answers · asked by Lady Sunshine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are still in school then he is not a man.....he's a boy with hormones running high, and if you know that your boyfriend is one to brag about things and you get the feeling he would brag about this then don't do it......now in terms of wanting to find out how to do it, i guess the best way would be to watch porno movies.....thats how i learned before my first sexual experience.....however if you don't feel ready for it then don't do it.
2007-02-07 14:12:31 · answer #1 · answered by fox mulder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
School plus sex equals "EASY". You don't want that reputation, trust me. Be safe and wait until you have a ring on your finger. Otherwise, he'll do anything he can until he gets you, and then things will seriously change, especially if you accidentally get pregnant. (And I don't care what kind of birth control you use, there is ALWAYS a chance.) Be safe. Wait.
Blessings
ps You can't explain how to "do it". It's different with every person and every partner. It's even different with the same partner depending on your mood and the setting you are in. (Trust me...I've been married for 12 years and STILL can't guarantee what it will be like the next time.) You'll learn when the time is right. ;)
2007-02-07 22:14:34 · answer #2 · answered by Silverwolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRUE Love is always doing what's best for the other person. Is having sex with him best for him?..or yourself..and if you dont feel like you can trust him now..what makes you think you'll ever be able to trust him if you bring sex into the mix of things..you need to give this relationship room to grow...you need a higher intamacy level..and when I say intamacy..I don't mean physcial..sorry if that sounds corny..but..just a thought..
2007-02-07 22:21:06 · answer #3 · answered by ash d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all hes not a man hes still a boy and if you are worried he will tell the whole school DONT DO IT.
2007-02-07 22:07:07 · answer #4 · answered by themom95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your too young. wait till you get older. your not going to love this guy forever. and its the truth. really think about it... if your not gonna be with them forever why would give yourself up for em. wait till you get older so you can gain a little bit more maturity before you make the decision to "do it".
2007-02-07 22:08:21 · answer #5 · answered by joethemetaldude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can tell you when you do it. If it's what you feel is really right then go ahead, but make sure that you protect yourself from diesease and pregnancy.
2007-02-07 22:08:00 · answer #6 · answered by Southern Smartie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it then...You'll break up and it will be going around the school...Plus guys are worse then girls, they do tell...
2007-02-07 22:09:31 · answer #7 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he will ... You are missing the the most important piece of a relationship TRUST
2007-02-07 22:08:15 · answer #8 · answered by kmcar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were IN LOVE, you wouldn't be worrying about him telling the whole school, cause he wouldn't.
2007-02-07 22:07:50 · answer #9 · answered by Venom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your in lust with a boy, not a man don't do it!!! be a good girl and do your home work now
2007-02-07 22:08:25 · answer #10 · answered by Bonduesa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋