how came all of the girls i have a crush on are my friends and we are to good of friends to ever date?

Question

It seems like all of the girls i'm crushing on are to good of friends with me that they would never think of going out with me it really sucks. Im thinking of two girls in particular

Answer 1

I have the same problem with one girl, but the main reason is that they are scared it would jeopardize the friendship and thats a risk their not willing to take...they would rather keep the friendship alive instead of risking the possibility of things going awry in the relationship and losing you and your friendship forever.

Answer 2

I ended up marrying my best friend from the fifth grade. We played practical jokes on each other all the way thru school. We dated other people nothing lasted, never found the right person. Then toward the end of our senior year together, we thought why not get together. We knew if the relationship ended we would not hurt each other because we had always been best friends. We trusted each other and we respected each other's thoughts and opinions. I guess I'm saying hang in there, maybe the young ladies need to experince dating a few other people before they realize what a great treasure you are.

Answer 3

It's because somewhere along the way, you missed two golden opportunities, and now you're stuck in the "friend zone." I wish you luck out of there, but if they're anything like the girls I know, you're doin' hard time in that zone.

If you weren't honest about your feelings for them back when you first knew you had them, it just becomes this major hurdle to jump over later.

I wish you luck, friend.

Answer 4

i think u crush mostly on ur friends b/c their the closest girl friends u got and u kno them better than any other girl
but ull nvr now how theyll feel bout u if u dont ask
so i say go and ask them and be mentally and emotionally prepared if u get the wrong answer

Answer 5

It extremely relies upon on how pleasing the guy is. I have had pleasing adult males who were purely friends and vice a versa. it really is not that unusual. If a woman talks about different adult adult males in the front of you, then she looks at you as only a chum. per chance she figures you're a guy, so she will be ready to ask you what your opinion is on so and so. the in hardship-free words thanks to understand if a woman is in touch, is to ask. in the different case, you'll in hardship-free words anticipate. If a woman likes you, she will be ready to objective to the contact you or decide on to be on the fringe of you in a roundabout way. Ask, it really is the in hardship-free words thanks to be particular.

Answer 6

Okay, so you are friends, that is best for dating anyway, then you know each other pretty well. I don't see anything wrong with asking one or two out. Take care.

Answer 7

This is because you know them so well that you feel something for them, love. But not LOVE love but brotherly and sisterly love and for most people when this happens the brotherly or sisterly love is also understood to them as a crush.

Answer 8

Because you know them and know how to relate to them, but if you want to remain friends with them try not to date them...Your horizons will broaden and you will relate to a new girl also, but in a slightly different way...:-)

Answer 9

Hmm. Well, maybe you feel you need to be close before you start to date, but then you can't control yourself and try to get closer them. Then they feel as if you just want to be friends.

Answer 10

Probably because these girls are the only ones you surround yourself with so you haven't gotten to know any other ones.