my best friend and her husband got married in 1993. we all have been friends and when they got divorced me and him remained friends she knew and is great about. they ahve becomes better friends since there divorce. when i got divorced in 2005. we began to see each other more on outing but never together always with other people. recently we ran into each other at a party. we began talking on the phone almost daily. i have never looked at him as anything other than a friend up til this point but latly that as all changed. neither one of us have been dating for the last year in a half and we have talked about it but everytime that boy comes near me i start to think about us getting together but i really don't want to hurt my best friend in the process. what do i do
2007-02-07 13:40:24 · 8 answers · asked by samidalejr08 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to your friend and see if she's okay with it.
2007-02-07 13:45:36 · answer #1 · answered by MaoAce7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first thought to this was NO....however as I started to think about it I decided that you really need to think about what you could lose........your friend may say that she is ok with it but she still may not be, so you have to make sure that this is serious because men may come and go but a good friend is yours forever.
2007-02-07 13:52:29 · answer #2 · answered by kat20mill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if they are divorced for a long time, something still isn't right. maybe you have to talk to your friend first. if it is perfectly fine for her, then i guess you can go ahead. but definitely there will still be that awkward feeling when you three are together.
2007-02-07 13:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say "nay nay fluffy" and walk away.
unacceptable. cause for trouble. danger will robinson, danger.
unless your friend gets married again and you still love her ex-hubby.
or you decide that he is more important to your happiness than her.
still shady, but understandable.
get out and meet new men/people/friends. there are others out there - promise.
good luck.
2007-02-07 13:48:23 · answer #4 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can you hurt your best friend? If they're no longer married there is nothing there to "hurt". He is single and free to date anyone he wishes.
2007-02-07 13:47:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can't say that you should talk to your bestfriend about this bc she/he will be like oh its okay, you can talk to him, have him..etc. blah.
i seriously dont think you should get closer to him bc he's the ex hubby of your bestfriend. if mayb he was a exboyfriend. it would be alright..
you should choose your person-you-like over your bestfriend who is always there for you.
2007-02-07 14:15:54 · answer #6 · answered by xkathiee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask HER. Seriously ask her, she knows the good and the bad of the guy.
2007-02-07 14:02:27 · answer #7 · answered by ahuhyeah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do it, but if theres love, the lord and commitment then go for it! God Bless!!!
2007-02-07 13:44:29 · answer #8 · answered by old 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋