I am 5' 3'' female 130 lbs and most guys say I'm good looking. The one thing that I hate about myself is a little extra fat on my stomach and a little bit of love handles. They arent too bad.. like they dont hang outa my pants liek some girls YUCK... but does this still gross guys out when they touch you there or put thier arm around you and when you cuddle? Please tell me because my long distance bf is coming soon and Im worried about him touching me there and getting grossed out or w/e I jsut feel insacure. GUYS IS IT A BIG DEAL???
2007-02-07 13:32:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No Big Deal at all
I love it I get turned on by it
It reminds me what women are supposed to look like
Not skinny and boylike
2007-02-07 13:36:40 · answer #1 · answered by john s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife also has some love handles and a bit of a tummy. That does not gross me. The only time that a woman grossed me was when she was so thin I actually thought that either her or me was going to get hurt. I'd rather date a healthy woman than an anorexic babe any day of the week, month or year.
2007-02-07 21:37:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The honest and true answer is it really depends on the guy. People have different tastes and there is no way for anyone on here to know what taste you boyfriend has. He may like it; he may not. It doesn't sound like you have much fat though so I wouldn't stress too much over it. Even if most guys on here say it does matter that does not mean your boyfriend will feel the same way.
2007-02-07 21:38:07 · answer #3 · answered by DiRTy D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you plan on having sex lying down, there really won't be anything to grab. Also, if your boyfrined hasn't seen you in a while, there will be very little to hold him back. Plus, maybe he will like the fact that you don't look like Paris Hilton or Nicole Ritchie, who are stick figures and VERY unattractive. Good Luck!
2007-02-07 21:41:22 · answer #4 · answered by Thinker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, IT IS A BIG DEAL to make the first good impression. For 5'3", your ideal weight should be from110-115lbs max. However, it is understandable for a middle age woman, like yourself who has 7 kids; it will be tough to lose those fat belly. You might consider a liposuction.
2007-02-07 21:39:55 · answer #5 · answered by Infinite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's in love with the person inside, your weight, looks, won't
matter if it is true love. Do yourself a favor .. stop looking for
problems and look at your good side. A person won't get anywhere if they always dwell on what they think is bad.
2007-02-07 21:55:10 · answer #6 · answered by Williamstown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Self confidence is more important than look. If you feel pretty, people will see you that way. But if you are insecure about your body, you can't expect others to like you more than what you do yourself.
What men like is different as every person is different.
2007-02-07 21:54:44 · answer #7 · answered by Cirrus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's really not a big deal. What would be a big deal is if you were self concious about the whole time and brought it up a lot or what have you.
2007-02-07 21:36:18 · answer #8 · answered by ernstmail04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys like more cushion for the pushin
2007-02-07 21:36:05 · answer #9 · answered by popstar452003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they find insecurity worse then any phisical flaw so even if you are dont show it like i did and guess what now im single for the dumb reason of insecurity and shyness x(
2007-02-07 21:35:58 · answer #10 · answered by blank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋