how do i deal with an annoying friend?

Question

My friend is always being weird. she hangs up sometimes she gets mad if she doesnt get her way. like she cames to my house and she sat in the big chair which i was sitting in before because its heavy and it is in front of the computer. she got mad because i asked to have my seat back and she said go sit in another chair. she spat water out on me and i got mad and she said im no fun. when i do stuff to her she blaims everything on me and said i make her cry. Im sick and tired of thos and ive tried to tell her but it wont go through her thick head. im mad right now and i dont know what to do.

She doesnt have other friends she wants to hang around and i dont want to stop being friends with her cause she can be nice. I just want to know how i can tell her that she is annoying without hurting her feelings.

Answer 1

Ok..first of all If she's in YOUR House..itz your rules..if she doesn't like it..Tuff Luck!

2nd- if you've tried 2 tell her && it wont work..start TAKIN ACTION!

She wont listen maybe she'll catch onZ!... you dont wont be around her, conversate wit her && even see her PERIOD!

I've done this ALOT OF TIMES & It works...now unless u still wanna b friendz...dont do that! write her a note or maybe juz say" SHUT UP && LISTEN ME...UR GETTIN ON MY NERVES..&& W/E"..Itz totally up 2 u wat 2 do..

Wish Ya Luck && BEST WISHES!

Answer 2

Look I know your sweet but you have to understand that people can be very different. Now she is acting very five ish so I would recommend that you not stay friends with her. SHe is so going to keep doing this until you stop or at least put a treaty or something.
Try to confront her like laugh and stuff be with her like make her smilie and then ask her why . And if its just her then , don't be her friend. She can find other friends and you don't deserve that.

Answer 3

It sounds like she is slightly immature. So if you tell her she has been annoying you will have to do it in a way where you (and she) feel comfortable. You can stress that she is your good friend but sometimes the way she acts hurts your feelings. You have to explain to her that you want as much courtesy/respect that you show her. She might be unhappy for awhile, but she'll get it. And maybe you can show your goofier side at times for her. Good luck.

Answer 4

Maybe try asking her if there is something goingon in her life that is causing her to be this way.

Maybe her home life is not good.

Sometimes people jsut do not realize what they are doing hurts others.

Point out her behavior in way that is kind and loving and maybe she will change.

Good luck

Answer 5

I know this is hard to believe but i have a feeling that this friend of yours is having alot of emotional trouble. she probably just wants to feel wanted and gets angry when people do certain things. maybe try to change your ways because you certainly can't change hers. however, if you really dont think its worth it, sometimes it is best to just drop the friendship.

Answer 6

you just tell her. dont talk behind her back tho that is the worst thing you can do. just be straight forward say, " no offense, but you get alittle out of hand sometimes..." you know something like that she shouldnt take it that hard.

Answer 7

just break it down to her and if she take it the wrong way then that is win u tell her the things she be doing wrong so she can try to fix them...

Answer 8

I think you have to tell her plainly that if she doesn't stop treating you that way you can't be friends with her. You don't have to put up with that.

Answer 9

Maybe she shouldn't be your friend. Or maybe something is on her mind.

Answer 10

kick her ***