my ex & i broke up a few months ago & i still care 4 him. what do i do. i'm so confused. 2 nights ago he told me that when he talks 2 me he doesn't fell alone. he also said when he sees me i bring a smile 2 his face. we've known each other 4 about 6 yrs. we were together 4 6 1/2 months, but we liked each other 4 almost 3 yrs. is it the real thing.
2007-02-07 12:52:03 · 11 answers · asked by army brat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you guys have been counting years, you can tell whether what he said is a lie, i believe you can weight the sincerity of his words.
being together for almost five years is not a joke, i think he really mean what he said. you can give him a chance if he wants you two to be together again. i think he is not aftering for sex only thinking that being together for years could have mean plenty of sex.
it is a common relationship problem, when relationship surpasses 3 years boredom will arise, it's not that you lost your feelings totally but you just fell bored. i have some friends with the same problem as yours, only 15% has made it through.. the answer is marriare or living in together and have a child.
be patience, understanding and exploring new interest & trying new things in bed might help. and look good always! get married or your doomed. (but settle first your finances, ok!)
goodluck
2007-02-07 14:54:03 · answer #1 · answered by vincent van go 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like it might be it. 2 reasons:
1) It's been a solid amount of years that you guys have been together and still love each other inmensly (As you described). normally after a year or two, couples start to realize who they really are as individuals and not just as their ''Prince charmin'' or their ''little princess'', or the ''perfect one''. You accept each other for what you both are. If there's any issues coping with who they are, normally they end up braking up for that reason. Cuz they aren't the same person they were at the beginning. So after 4 years, I'm sure you guys accepted each other for what you guys really are with all each other faults. So I'm assuming this brake up had to do with something else.
2) No one in the world will make you feel the things that special person makes you feel. Specially if it's been quite some time after breaking up. The fact that he says those things, such as you bringing a smile to his face or him not feeling lonely when he talks to you, shows that he needs YOU. It shows that this need can't be filled by any one else other than you.
I would say that you try to work things out, talk it over, and renew a new relationship. This normally helps to rebuild a relationship stronger and on most cases better than the first time.
Good luck!!
2007-02-07 21:03:58 · answer #2 · answered by RSB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is common when friends become more and then try to go back to friendship.
Be careful not to confuse friendship for more. You broke up before - you have to look at why you broke up -
You can always get back together but if you did not resolve the issues of why you broke up it might not work again.
Good luck
2007-02-07 20:56:37 · answer #3 · answered by Bob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends how old he is. If he is 18 years or younger then he would be confused and he might be the one or he might not. Chances are if you break up with some around this age you will not get back with him. This would not be the case if he knew himself well. Other than that date other people and if its meant to be you will eventually get back with him.
2007-02-07 20:57:01 · answer #4 · answered by LB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows. Do you care more about his happiness than your own? Does he feel the same about you? If so then it is the real thing. If not, then it's probably just a good friendship.
2007-02-07 20:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Barker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go 4 it
2007-02-07 20:56:06 · answer #6 · answered by College Tri 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the real thing.
2007-02-07 20:56:13 · answer #7 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you knew him long enough then you can tell if its true. I say he's serious. Go girl!
2007-02-07 20:56:17 · answer #8 · answered by eyentmd8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were having sex while you were together, it probably means that he's ready to have sex with you again... Good luck.
2007-02-07 20:55:42 · answer #9 · answered by Besser 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
is this a math question.the answer is 10
2007-02-07 20:56:00 · answer #10 · answered by armond425 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋