She is a shy girl at church. Age 19 and living at home! I think she might just be shy around me bc she is scared of me! She knows I like her, but we haven't talked much bc we only see each other once a week! If she is trying to be nice and avoid me, what signs would she and her family give??? How would she act if she thougth I was stalking her? ...even though I 'm not, but just if I am coming on too strong???
2007-02-07 12:47:16 · 11 answers · asked by 80srock 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If her family dont like u and dont want u to c her theyll usually try to interfer when ever u try to talk to her(but forget the family theyll like u after u and the girls giong out)
But for the girl.........
if u think ull coming on to strong
start with small simple stuff like going to get something to eat
then go to movies if u think she starting to like u
Then if she does then u do wat u gonna do
2007-02-07 13:02:53 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet n' Sour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welp, if your worred about coming on too strong, play it cool.
just do small talk thing like about the news or something...one thing you might want to NON CHALANTLY observe are her habits or things she might like to do...then, start a conversation about it...
now, i know what you mean by wondering if she is shy. there is this girl at my school and she is she, in fact she flat out told me, and then walked away. lol.
my last bit of advice is this: suck it up, and just be blunt!
maybe say something like: "i find you very attractive and appealing, my mind has been going crazy over you! how do you feel about me!?! if at all?!?!"
maybe not SO dramatic, but maybe pour on some charm. lol. anyways, the worst she can say is i hate you, or something along those lines, but trust me, there are plenty of people out there for you, and remember, to let fate take its course. if its meant to be, it will.
2007-02-07 20:56:37 · answer #2 · answered by pomnabo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Classic signs she does not like you.
(a) She doesn't return phone calls or has sisters or roomates make excuses.
(b) She cuts conversations short on the phone and in person.
(c) She askes you to call her back at a certain time and makes sure she not in. Phone tag
(d) She tells you she likes you as a friend.
(e) She tells you she needs time.
2007-02-07 20:55:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked for her number? Asked her out on a date? Man up boy and ask her to do something and then you'll know. Don't be scared of women or you'll never find one.
2007-02-07 20:51:44 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Barker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be friends with her. It's not a race, so don't floor it, okay? If you see her, say hi; if not, wait until the next time you do. As long as you don't crowd her, you'll be fine.
2007-02-07 20:51:34 · answer #5 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is scared of you, then ignore her and talk to other people. If she likes you, then she will come to you. If not, then she hates you.
2007-02-07 20:52:01 · answer #6 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl doesn't liek you when she doesnt try to avoid you if she trys she lieks you if she trys not to avoid you but does she lieks you and do you want to have sex?
2007-02-07 20:51:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol. "Coming on too strong." You're not even coming on, man. Just talk to her, jeez. What are you afraid of?
2007-02-07 20:56:09 · answer #8 · answered by Alan K 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u wiuld know she wouldnt like u if she acted annoyed around u...
2007-02-07 20:50:35 · answer #9 · answered by book worm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a girl doesn't like you, you can see it in her eyes. Girls can do that.
2007-02-07 20:55:27 · answer #10 · answered by therightanswer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋