I love my exwife and got back together. She decided that she still wanted to date the man she was living with. I live with her now. She dates him and me and has sex with both of us. I love her, she loves me and him. Anyone have any advice. I get jealous a little but I am ok with it just to be with her.
2007-02-07 12:36:28 · 18 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude man dude what the ,how could, dude why would ya , dude I've now heard everything . dude
2007-02-07 12:44:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out now before it's too late.You will go nuts with this,I have been there too and believe me it's not worth it.I think you 2 need to set down and have a long talk and let her know your feelings and she must choose and you must live with that choice.I know it's hard to think about but a relationship like this has never in history worked out.A couple is a man and a woman,sounds like she has her cake and eats it too.Maybe the three of you need to talk because I'm sure he feels the same or else he just like's the sex and cares nothing for her.If he did care he would have already said something.She needs to choose and you need to stick to your guns.Good luck and God Bless!
2007-02-07 12:49:44 · answer #2 · answered by harleyman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you're not ok with it because you're asking for advice about the situation.
Seeing as she was your ex, I'd say there was a reason you broke up the first time. And now she's just using you.
Move on. You'll find a woman out there who can actually be WITH you. And maybe don't go jumping into marriage so fast next time.
Good luck
2007-02-07 12:42:49 · answer #3 · answered by Tomis 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are hurting yourself more and more each day. And she enjoy her life having two man who love her. You love her but she didn't love you. She just enjoying her life. Let her suffer for her greed. Don't let her have whatever way she want. You should not tolerate this kind of woman, coz there are a lot of better woman out there. If your ex still can't choose, then you have to leave her. Coz you also have your own life. Life is short, why you want to suffer? If you want to suffer, then stay with her and pretend to be happy. The choice is yours, to be happy or to suffer.
2007-02-07 12:48:43 · answer #4 · answered by rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the hell would you put up with that? There are other fish in the sea. All you need to do is bait your hook and cast the line. Drop the "ex" and don't look back. Hopefully, her sexual openness isn't exposing you to diseases which you most-likely want to be without...
2007-02-07 12:43:51 · answer #5 · answered by Besser 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are crazy to accept this type of relationship. You need to kick her butt out! Why should she settle for one guy when she can selfishly have two supporting and caring for her? You are enabling her to be irresponsible and immature. You are opening yourself up to every disease she, or her other lover have been exposed to and you are probably being laughed at behind your back by others.
You deserve the love and devotion of one woman. One who knows how to be faithful to you. You don't need to settle for second best.
Sometimes we settle for second because we think it is better than being alone. It isn't.
2007-02-07 12:42:13 · answer #6 · answered by mar 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thats kinda crazy...she'll need to pick one or the other...or u need to pick ur exwife or a new women.
2007-02-07 12:39:53 · answer #7 · answered by Beaute 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
HELLO SO YOUR SAYING TO LIVE WITH YOUR WIFE YOU WILL PUT YOURSELF IN LINE FOR CRABS OR AIDS ???
WAKE UP.
HE IS MOST PROBABLY SLEEPING WITH OTHER WOMEN ALSO BECAUSE HE KNOWS YOU ARE LIVING TOGETHER.
SHE CANT LOVE YOU THAT MUCH OR SHE WOULDNT BE WITH HIM. WOULD SHE ? TELL HER TO MAKE HER CHOICE YOU OR HIM. IF SHE WANTS HIM AT LEAST YOU WONT HAVE TO LIVE IN THE SHADOW OF A UNCLEAN WOMAN.
GOOD LUCK & STOP BEING A DOOR MAT.
2007-02-07 12:48:52 · answer #8 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt be involved with your ex if it didnt work the first time. if you really do love her talk to her and see who she really wants. if she chooses you give her some ground rules and if she doesnt except you know your can do better because she doesnt truely love you.
2007-02-07 12:42:47 · answer #9 · answered by AnnaBelle 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU'RE OK WITH IT THEN YOU HAVE YOUR ANSWER,BUT I WOULD SUGGEST WEARING A CONDOM.THERE REALLY IS A LOT OF ICHY STUFF GOING ON DOWN THERE.YOU REALLY NEED TO PROTECT YOURSELF CAUSE YOU CAN GET STUFF AND NOT EVEN KNOW YOU HAVE IT.ALSO,SHE MAY NOT BE THE ONLY ONE HE'S SLEEPING WITH.MOST LIKELY SHES NOT HIS ONLY ONE.
2007-02-07 12:57:51 · answer #10 · answered by GranGran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋