I know someone for three years to five years , i love him alot and he do cause he told me ) .One day i ask him if he was a true friend to me .He dare telling me NO because i was try to change him .
Well i can't trust anything that he said anymore before or after. He is acting like everything is cool.
what should i do walk away or do you think i should talk to him still.
2007-02-07 12:31:14 · 6 answers · asked by Mar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
were you drunk while writing this?
2007-02-07 12:36:17 · answer #1 · answered by College Tri 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've got to tell you that we women do have a tendency to try to change our mates- but it is a bad idea, and never works. It just creates resentment between the two people. You will probably never find anyone who you think is perfect (if you do, they are probably scamming or manipulating you) so you have to decide what you can live with and what you can't. You asked him a question, and he told you the truth- so why do you say you can't trust him? Did you want him to lie? Are you trying to manipulate him? Examine your own actions, and you might see that you hve been trying to change him, and that is not fair, and will not work. Accept him as he is, or move on.
2007-02-07 12:46:53 · answer #2 · answered by Susan H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u making a problem out of nothin yeh talk to him just stop tryna change him and it might take a while 4 u to regain the friendship back but if u really love him u will stick it out to the end i hope i answered your q tell ppl about hooper hotline and hit me up if any more q at shafone_07@yahoo.com
2007-02-07 12:40:17 · answer #3 · answered by hooper hotline 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wonder why he thought you were trying to change him? can you think of what you may have said or did? i'd talk to him and tell him you want to sort out this issue. you've been friends for so long that it would be sad if one little issue ruined the friendship.
tell him you want to talk with him and work things out and try to continue what has been an awesome friendship so far..
2007-02-07 12:50:27 · answer #4 · answered by Jeff 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should try talking to him again. You are right to come to here for advice. You should really ask his parents what is bothering him and if you can't please feel free to email me at sandybear4@msn.com please and i will help you get though it because i did that with my firend and it worked out perfectly and i hope yours does too
2007-02-07 12:38:41 · answer #5 · answered by RB- is happy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont understand it. he says he loves you but he isn't your true friend because you want to change him? WHAT?
2007-02-07 12:35:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋