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how do i make a move? im really shy

2007-02-07 12:29:26 · 13 answers · asked by *Madison 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Well, the best way to start is to give eye contact and maybe even a smile. If you can muster up a smile, then it is a great move. Then you can start talking to him. Once you have a few converations with him, he will start liking you.

2007-02-07 12:32:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Your BF has to be your guideance. HE should make the move. I'm 11, and I always make my GF feel protected and comfortable around me. We've been going out for 2 months and we kissed maybe twice. If he has feelings for you, hed do something really sweet for you this valentines day. I bought my GF a Box of chocolate, a dozen roses and a frog (she loves red eye tree frogs lol). You can't make the move. If he still doesn't make the move, get someone else who will make you feel more secure and THey will make the move.
Nick

2007-02-07 20:36:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

There are many kinds of moves. Here are them in order from nervous to lovin:

Chat & twirl your hair

Touch him lightly during conversation

Smile whenever you look away, looking kind of nervous

Little hug

BIG hug

Peck on the cheek

Peck on the lips

SMOOCH

Full blast make-out

You know what

I'd rather you not do the You know what one, but start with the smaller ones, he will most likely get the message

2007-02-07 20:42:50 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine 3 · 0 0

I used to be shy, but sometimes you need to force up the courage to make your move...it doesn't have to be bold, but it does need to happen. Once you do it a couple of times you'll get braver...now I just ask them out, no beating around the bush...like today, this really pretty, and really nice girl I work with is leaving the company (we can't date in our office environment), so I walked up to her and said, "so I hear your leaving" and she said she was, so I asked her out...I said flat out "do you want to go out for dinner with me"...now consider I hardly knew her, I didn't know what she'd say, or how she'd react...was I nervous...Nope...and guess what, we're going for dinner :)
Now if she'd said No, I'd have no regrets, because at least I tried, and I'd rather have tried then spend time regretting not going for it at all!

You'll work out the shyness if you try more...every time you try it gets easier!

2007-02-07 20:38:11 · answer #4 · answered by bheithcao 2 · 0 0

The simpliest and kindest thing to do is 'smile'. Smiling is a positive gesture of 'peace and love'. When he noticed you and return that smile, he is making peace with you. So next time when you meets him along the corridor, canteen, mall etc. just say 'hi'. It is one of the shortest words you can ever find. You can even 'blurred' out, LOL. You may be shivering with embarassment but that word may lead you to a relationship... so it is worth it... ok.... Best of luck gurl

2007-02-07 20:39:14 · answer #5 · answered by Nice Guy 2 · 0 0

Well if that shy write a letter and put his name on it and give it to him and tell him to read it. ANd in teh letter tell him how you feel about him and ask him if he feels the same about you. ANd be prapared because he might not feel the same about you, But need to chat more IM me or e-mail me anytime.

2007-02-07 20:39:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

be touchy feely. if your to shy to kiss first and all that other stuff... just when you guys touch... touch a little longer... and he will start to wonder... then just tell him i am a little nervous-- guys like that because then hell tell you you dont have to be and he will try to give you a reason not to be... and being shy works in your favor...

2007-02-07 20:33:47 · answer #7 · answered by Renee 2 · 0 0

Just tell him your not wearing any panties and that is the last move you have to make, baby

2007-02-07 20:32:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

when you talk to ur crush or bf have a conversation and then when he starts talking a lot put your lips on his mouth to make his stop talkingand then kiss him

2007-02-07 20:32:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

just say hi to some guy who seems to be looking at you. he'll say something back and get a conversation goin

2007-02-07 20:34:26 · answer #10 · answered by pnoybaler 3 · 0 0

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