My hair...or my bf?

Question

i have brownish blondish hair. its about a few inches below my shoulder, im trying to grow it really long. My bf says he likes short hair (right on my shoulder) becaus "long hair makes girls look like horses" but i HATE having short hair! i love having it long......what do i do?

Answer 1

if you want it long, then keep it long. he shouldn't control you. you could go into the advantages in bed with long hair... however he is right, long hair looks like a horses tail, or worse, cousin it. maybe you can style it in a way that it looks short but is still growing. a pony tail, pigtails, or the like.

it's really up to you...

Answer 2

Do what you want with your own hair. Would you accept him telling you what to wear? How much makeup to apply? Where you can go? Because if he's the type that would leave you for having the wrong hair, then he's the type to be very controlling.

Answer 3

i think of it like this its ur life if u like long hair then tell him u understand how he feels but u feel more comfortable with long hair if he dont like that honestly id tell him to get the H*LL over it

Answer 4

It is your hair and your body, if you brake up over the lenght of your hair then that just shows that he only liked you for your hair.

Answer 5

Its ur hair u do what u want ( i would not cut it for him) keep ur hair the way u like it! if he likes u or loves u he will accept u either way :)

Answer 6

just tell him that you like longer hair. if he really likes you he should be able to see past it.

Answer 7

You do what you want to do - its your hair - its your body

Answer 8

do what you want, if he likes you I'm sure he'll stick around. Although don't grow it past your butt, cause thats just gross :)

Answer 9

your hair will grow back ...its a simple thing to please ur guy. :)