I want to do something special for Valentine's day. I wanted to buy a sexy babydoll or bustier or something, but the perfect one is $50. Is it worth the money? Do guys even care, since it will be on the floor within 5 minutes anyway? Is there something better I should be buying for Valentine's day instead?
2007-02-07 12:26:25 · 13 answers · asked by goshimwaycool 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on whether or not you have the money - but to give some background on why I think lingerie is 'such a big deal' -
Let's face it, in an even semi-decent relationship, it doesn't matter what you wear and he'll still find you attractive. Lingerie is all about the mood and about doing something sweet for his testosterone-driven side. What guy wouldn't be flattered and excited to have his honey all dolled-up and sexy - just for him? It shows confidence AND that you care enough about him that you don't mind (or maybe like) making yourself the object of his...well..sexual affection. That's why guys care. (It's kind of how girls care about flowers. Sure, they're pretty, but it's the fact they were a gift from him that really matters! Lingerie is like chocolate or flowers for most guys - in some form)
Now, back to the feminist and reality side. Can you have a fulfilling relationship with him without it? Heck yes. Can you buy him something practical, with a deeper meaning between the two of you, and he'll swoon just as much (if not more) as oogling you dressed in lingerie? Sure, almost guarantee it. But a guy, just like women, has hormones. And we all hook up with a chosen mate at least somewhat for the physical side of it. Your call in the end, when I get lingerie it's just one of many ways to do something for him. Not the only thing, just an option....
Have a fun Valentine's day!
2007-02-07 12:40:36 · answer #1 · answered by country_girl_in_a_city 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sexy Lingerie For Guys
2016-10-31 22:17:04 · answer #2 · answered by ashworth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lingerie is something that is linked to women. Men are usually known as practical human beings that you would not see them looking for luxurious undergarments. Underwear and nightwear fall under lingerie. However, they are not the type that you can see on department stores. Lingerie usually has their own clothing boutique and it is well-designed and sexy compared to typical undergarments. Even though this type of apparel can not be flaunted and tend to be costly, wearing lingerie is said to have some benefits to women. Sexy lingerie benefits have been discovered by women since decades. It seems that wearing lingerie has become a fashion trend as lingerie designers have outdone themselves with their creations. Sexy lingerie can have a variety of benefits over a woman's confidence and self esteem, this is why more and more women are paying much more attention to this detail.
2014-11-10 22:54:04 · answer #3 · answered by Roshani 3 · 10⤊ 0⤋
It's sexy when a girl wears lingerie for sure, but it isn't the most important thing. If money is an issue, then it's not worth it.
2007-02-07 12:29:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you have been with your man for a long time, me personally, i've been with my boyfriend 4 years and the first time i wore something sexy when we first started dating he lovedddddd it. then i wore it once after we moved in together and were living together a bit, and he's like stop the game's on....haven't worn anything like that since. so it all depends on his personality and stuff like that. if it's not something you usually do, you'll probably surprise him!
But some guys are weird, like when you first start dating they LOVE anything sexual, really, but then once they know they've "got" you, they dont seem to care about it if YOU want it, only if THEY do.
Good luck with whatever you get him!
2007-02-07 12:32:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My guy got turned on my lingerie, but he still likes me better w/ nothing ;p
2016-03-18 01:45:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find a deep red, long silky gown instead. It's something you can wear other times as well. The 'hidden' prize is often more of a turn on. Chances are it too will be on the floor shortly.
2007-02-07 12:33:33 · answer #7 · answered by sandyblondegirl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Never thought too much about this
2016-09-20 21:58:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it does matter......this helps in arousing their interest in taking it off.......but if u ask me then it is definitely not worth.....
BUt still the choice is yours...
2007-02-07 12:32:57 · answer #9 · answered by summeravi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Was asking myself the same question
2016-08-23 17:23:51 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋