i dont see myself in a relationship anymore with this girl who turned me down...but why is it my stomach literally ached when i saw her again??? and i cant get her off my mind, i keep replaying our brief enocunter, asking myself why did i feel that way and what was she thinking. i even internalize how will i feel if i see her with someone else, and im starting to hate that guy who got along with her. i keep promising myslef ill never ask another question about her, but i still do.
2007-02-07 12:24:09 · 4 answers · asked by vincent m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's normal..there was simply no chemistry for her from you...but you need to move on. I'm sure there's probably some girl out there who's as much into you and you don't know that she exists because she's too scared and shy to talk to you and if she did you'd probably shoot her down too. We always like the people who don't like us the same way. It happens so often...it's not funny...it hurts...but you'll get over it. God made lots of girls. Check that out instead. You'll be glad you did.
2007-02-07 12:28:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn’t it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life . . . You give them a piece of you. They didn’t ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn’t your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like ‘maybe we should be just friends’ turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It’s a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you apart pain. I hate love.
Neil Gaiman quote
2007-02-07 12:30:03 · answer #2 · answered by melissa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um maybe u feel dat way and ask questions about her because u still like her.wel i mean idk how guys handle this u know but if she turned u down then u shouldnt even bother to think about her u should move on is the best u could do. and i cant belive im sayin diz but a girl like dat aint wortha guys heart. u'l find someone better. and keep urself dat promise cause u'd just break a promise dat u did 2 urself and i gues dats like not kool. wel im sure ul move on and find someone who wont turn u down and who wil not let go of a guy like u. good luck!!
2007-02-07 12:34:34 · answer #3 · answered by krazy&sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well try to look for some other girl. but if you end up comparing every girl u see to her then you probably like alot her. and its ok to like someone who doesnt like you back. just wait for her. try to get to know her better and be her friend. or wait for some other girl to come along that will make you compeletly forget about this girl.
2007-02-07 12:31:52 · answer #4 · answered by pnoybaler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋