I'm 17 and all of my friends seem to have already lost their viginity. But when ever I get a chance to have sex I get to scared. What can I do to be more commfotable about sex. I'd light to hear about other people's first time.
2007-02-07 12:17:02 · 13 answers · asked by chris s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wait until your comfortable its the best thing to do never rush into just to be cool or cuz your friends did it that doesn't matter wait till you love someone to do that ok
2007-02-07 12:21:05 · answer #1 · answered by tha_king_17 a.k.a. josh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it until you're ready for it! I was a virgin until I was 20, and one of the last of my friends to lose mine. I was pretty indifferent about sex for awhile, it was just something I felt would happen when I was ready for it. I lost mine to a friend of mine and even though we weren't in a steady relationship it felt right just because I knew I was ready and I was comfortable with him. You will know when you can handle it, but everyone is different. I would make sure that you are really comfortable with the person, because honestly it is a pretty emotional experience the first time around. :) hope that helps a bit
2007-02-07 12:23:53 · answer #2 · answered by Kailani21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't if your not ready. Noone should make you obligated to feel like you have to score because of your age, Wait till its right. I'm in the sixth grade, I know kids in 7th grade who's had sex. People ask me when me and my GF will have sex, I tell them to shut up because I'm 11. Wait till your in love with someone. I always said, what would happen if you were young, you had sex with your GF, and she got pregnant when your like 16. You won't feel the need then. Other people could tell you more from experience, as I said I'm 11, maybe in 8 years we can talk again lol
Nick
2007-02-07 12:30:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didn't even get to try sex until i was 25. i was very scared too. i couldn't stay hard and in the end, never did it. i was able to give oral sex to the girl and that turned out good.. the big issue is being comfortable and ready emotionally. it's gotta be with someone you love and trust and care about..
other thing, you don't have to go all the way at first.. maybe start with oral sex or even just naked cuddling. being naked with another person is a very intimidating and vulnurable feeling and takes some getting used to.
2007-02-07 12:27:32 · answer #4 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Virginity is a very precious thing, and once you lose it it's lost forever. Sex comes naturally, so don't worry about when you're going to have sex. Anyway, those who have waited have said that sex is like a bottle of wine, the longer you wait before opening it, the better it is when you finally do.
2007-02-07 12:27:42 · answer #5 · answered by Jaguar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's your rush? Don't be in such a hurry to lose something you can never get back. Just because everyone is talking about having have had sex it doesn't mean they have talk is talk. Wait for the right person and time. The wait will be worth it.
2007-02-07 12:22:20 · answer #6 · answered by insd92104 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it if you are scared. Wait until it is right or you will regret it. It is the most precious thing that you could ever give a man TRUST ME! It is GOLD to them they fall on their needs for what you have between your legs. I mean buy cars and planes and trips to the Swedish Alps for what you have. Keep it nice and fresh...
2007-02-07 12:24:16 · answer #7 · answered by ajcarter000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that you feel you aren't ready yet and your body is responding to it.
Be in an actual relationship with the person for awhile. Talk to them. Tell them how you feel. And when you get comfortable, you will be able to relax more.
2007-02-07 12:21:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you are scared to have sex DONT do IT!!! you can waut just cuz all your friends have lost it then it dosent mean that you have to, i hope you dont live life through your friends dont rush take your time and wait till you meet someone you cant live without, it will be your biggest regreret...
2007-02-07 12:23:07 · answer #9 · answered by brown_eyedgurl22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait until you are ready i was 21 the first time i had sex
2007-02-07 12:22:29 · answer #10 · answered by queencole35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋