I always find myself all wraped around some guy, and than I find out that he is cheating. Do I just have a nack for sniffing these low life men out or is there just no decent men left? I just wasted yet another year of my life on a relationship just to find out he was cheating with a woman that he was with for 2 years before me and some other girl he had picked up in between. Is my problem that I might be too trusting or what?! I am so lost on this matter!
2007-02-07 12:08:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you see a gorgeous guy and you think he is the one for me. But then he cheats on you and you feel hurt. But it's normal to feel the way you do. ALso there is nothing yu can do about how a guy acts or does. Your taking a chance on him from the start. But next time just be friends, and after a while go from there. But there are good men like me all over, but some of us aren't all handsome and buffed up. ANd the nice, honest, poor guys liek me are left on teh curb waiting for someon e to just look and speak with us. So find one nice and friendly then go from there. Want to chat more IM me or e-mail me anytime
2007-02-07 12:20:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You live and you learn, okay? (I always ask how I manage to pick complete idiots for girlfriends, if it's any consolation.) There are decent men out there, they're just harder to land, unless you sugar them up nicely. The trick is to pay attention; if he acts like he's always preoccupied, keep your eyes open. If he spends a lot of time on his cell, that's an indication, too. There are more, but I can't remember all of them; those are the big ones, though. Wish I could be of more help; good luck.
2007-02-07 20:15:52 · answer #2 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's totally not your fault, all girls fall for guys who turn out to be douchebags. you ever hear of the saying 'treat a girl like dirt, she'll stick to you like mud'? it's cause it's true .. girls love jerks. but if he was cheating, it's not your fault he just doesn't know what a real relationship is, and in turn, not the real guy you thought he was. but trust me girl, there are plenty of wonderful guys out there, it just takes time and experience to find them. best of luck <3
2007-02-07 20:13:50 · answer #3 · answered by elaina jay 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont know it seems like your a nice person but to gullible but keep trying you will get there in the end
2007-02-07 20:13:44 · answer #4 · answered by glowing flair 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem is that good men can't get good women
2007-02-07 20:14:53 · answer #5 · answered by goldfreeblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you give too much to expect too much, i don't know if you get it but it's the best way i could explain it.
2007-02-07 20:13:54 · answer #6 · answered by celi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋