One of my good guy friends likes me, and I have recently developed a crush on him as well. We hang out often, and when I'm with him sometimes, he's really loving, we cuddle a lot, he's kissed me quite a few times already, he always worries about me and cares for me. But then other times, it's like he doesn't really care. He won't completely ignore me, but he won't act as caring as he is other times, and he'll just go off on his own. I know I'm not going to be at the top of his list of priorities in life, and I'm not asking to be, but his off-and-on sort of behavior has me really confused. Sometimes I feel like he doesn't like me anymore, but then he'll turn around and sweep me off my feet again. What does this off-and-on behavior mean?
2007-02-07 12:08:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, he does know i like him back.
2007-02-09 13:00:58 · update #1
It sounds as though you might be enamored by this guy. He might feel the same way, but he still needs away time (it is a guy thing). The next time you two share an intimate moment, let him know what is going on with you and the way you feel about him. You might start by telling him how it makes you feel when he kisses and holds you, then let him know what you go through when he seems to have no interest. You never know, he might be going through the same thing, just in a different way.
2007-02-07 12:20:14 · answer #1 · answered by hlywd29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you two, would be right as a couple. I mean its like he has it good days and bad days, one day he'll be interested next minute its just whatever. If you think he likes you, and your sure, that he likes you, then i mean i think that you'll have a good relationship together, but it seems to me that you and him would be better off as friends
2007-02-07 20:13:01 · answer #2 · answered by Steeler Nation: 6 Time Champs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever gave a good friend who sweeps you off of your feet a chance to be a good something else?
2007-02-07 20:12:22 · answer #3 · answered by Shariff J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you showing as much interest in him as he is you? if so, then let him know for sure that you really like him and you'd like to start some sort of relationship with him, cause it seems to me like that's what you're headed for. he probably just feels like you're a good friend and he likes you, but if there's other things going on he's not going to treat you like a legit girlfriend, cause you're not. best of luck <3
2007-02-07 20:11:51 · answer #4 · answered by elaina jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he's confuse too, he went you to give him back what he give you. if he show you love today and next week don't maybe you should give him some love back it work both way, he feel the same way.
2007-02-07 20:11:41 · answer #5 · answered by celi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he know you like him? It sounds like he is intimidated by you.
2007-02-07 20:11:58 · answer #6 · answered by *Madison 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋