I have been going out with my fiance for 10 months. we have known each other since kindgergarten. when we got engaged i was over the moon. why shouldnt i have been, i had a man who loved me for what i was, had a roof over my head, and i was head over heals in love with him. we NEVER fight. Suddenly im questioning if this is what ireally want. its been a month since he asked me to marry him btw. and i mean SERIOUSLY questioning.. my ex and my fiance are the only two guys ive ever slept with, i feel like im suddenly missing out on something by never having a one night stand or something, my ex has crept back into the picture, and even though he treated me like **** i find myself missing him terribly all the sudden. we havent done anything yet but im afraid if things dont change with my fiance soon, i might do something stupid. i have told my fiance how im feeling, but neither of us is sure what to do, cause we have never had a problem like this before...what do i do?
2007-02-07 12:01:36 · 0 answers · asked by Ashley M 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY! if all your going to do is tell me to go screw someone else, then get off the computer and go do something useful with your life, because there is a lot at stake here, and i dont want to screw this up.
2007-02-07 12:03:00 · update #1
thank you to the people who gave me REAL answers, because i know im not an idiot if im asking for help rather than just going and screwing some random guy
2007-02-07 12:16:16 · update #2
I had been with more than two people when i got married.So had my husband.Looking back now though it doesn't change what i feel.It was fun at the time and all,but it doesn't compare to what i have with my husband.If you feel like you are missing out now chances are you will always feel that way.You actually are NOT missing anything,but if you are like me,it's something you will have to learn for yourself and not be told.Maybe take a little time to both date other people and see what happens?If you realise you can't possibly live without each other-You have struck gold!!
2007-02-07 20:17:53 · answer #1 · answered by Jane Doe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you might be missing your ex because you know if this goes through, youll be MARRIED!!!
dont do anything with your ex, its all psycological
one night stands arent that great
2007-02-07 20:07:07 · answer #2 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't do anything. stay with your fiance, because he sounds lyk a wonderful guy. u've known each other for so long that there's no doubts ur gunna spend the rest or ur life with a complete stranger. ur ex treated u badly, so whats there to miss? what r the odds he's gunna treat u well? he's not going to change, and u will regret any mistakes u make. don't screw up the beautiful relationship u have with ur fiance. u don't always get 2nd chances....
2007-02-07 20:06:21 · answer #3 · answered by ajl_713 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're an idiot
reread your question and tell me I'm not right
P.S.- that is a serious answer. go ahead and give a thumbs down for all I care
2007-02-07 20:06:07 · answer #4 · answered by Stymie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋