Am I Gay Or Am I bisexual?

Question

I very freaked becuase I have been having gay feelings, but right before this I liked girls! I'm freaked if something cuased this. All I can think of is that south park cuased this, Or am I bisexual

Answer 1

sounds like you are bisexual If you have feelings for both sex.
you should trust your feelings and do whatever you want. It is fine with that

Answer 2

First of all, "You are asking your Question in the wrong section. Your Question is not meant to be in the Mental Health Section, simply because of this confusion"

Go and post your Question in the Society
Section, specifically under Gay, Lesbian, and Transgendered area. There is nothing wrong, bad, evil, or mentally ill about being gay, or
bisexual.

Love and Accept yourself, no matter what.
And try not to be angry, or bitter toward anyone who isn't like you, or toward anyone who negatively cirticizes, judges, or condemn you, if you are gay or bisexual. 85% of the United States are some sort of christians, and they condemn homosexuals.
But have a good self-image of yourself, and simply accept you, for who you are - whether you are gay or bisexual, or straight, as I am.
If you are gay or bisexual, realize you do not have a sickness or disease. Love and accept yourself, for who you are.
I am a minority in this country as a Mayayana
Buddhist, and am so very often misunderstood, and negatively criticized, judged and condemned by many people, but I have discovered a practice, a philosophy of life, which brings me peace, happiness, and purpose for my life.
Just be yourself, without becoming bitter toward others. Your a great person, a very unique, special person, who most definately has A LOT to offer humanity, and a certain special person in a committed relationship someday.

With Metta {lovingkindness and friendship) -
The Ant. You may read my profile if you'd like to

Your Asked an Excellent Question, and I chose to give you a STAR ! Have a Great Week.

Answer 3

First of all, as some one who is bisexual, being interested in the same sex is not a mental health issue. If a health issue of any sort, it is sexual health.

Now for a true answer.

South Park didn't cause this. As some one who occassionally watches South Park, I can say that it is not the cause. Unless your speaking directly about the relationship between My Garrisson and Mr Slave, or in the case of the movie, Satan and Saddam Hussein. And if this has anything to do with it, you're just bi-curious.

If these are deep interests, including fantasies and the such, then you were just a so-called "closet case". I have to ask, do you still have thoughts and feelings towards girls? If so, it is safe to say that you are at least bi, if not actually straight and just considering the thought.

In the end my confused friend, don't freak out. If you want to experiment, please do so safely. My first real girlfriend was experimenting. She went "pro", meaning that she really was bi. But another girlfriend turned out just to be curious.

And as a last thought, my boyfriend is completely straight. But he happens to be rather feminine. My cousin is completely gay, alternating with his bf between top and bottom. But he is one of the manliest guys I know. Just cause you like guys doesn't mean you're going to fit into some BS stereotype that gay guys are "limp-wristed".

Answer 4

This is a question of identity and is not easily answered in a day or a week. Pay attention to yourself and how you feel. Buy some magazines with pics of "hot" guys and girls in them. Your standard teeny boper mags work for this. Also pay attention to how you feel when you watch athletes of both sexes perform. This may be another good indicator. But remember these are only physical feelings and can be transitory. Pay attention to how you feel about members of both sexes when you are with them on a casual friendly basis. Do you feel like you care for one or the other more or less intensely in a romantic way ? See, no one else can make up your mind about these things for you. Look inside yourself and don't pay any attention to any of the old silly stereotypes. You're not gonna get a limp wrist just cause you get a woody for guys. Its all very natural. Just go with it and maybe talk to a sympathetic and trusted friend who won't go blabbing all over the place.

Good Luck.

Answer 5

Well, I'm confused about the South Park link, but if you are having sexual feelings for guys, then you might be bisexual.
Is there a particular guy you like, or do you like all different guys? There is a man crush scenario-you might really admire a guy for whatever reason, be it his looks, personality, whatever, and your admiration is manifesting itself as sexual feelings.
You have to look at yourself and ask yourself honestly, if I could have sex with this (or another) guy, would I? if not, then you probably just have a crush. If so, examine your feelings deeper. If you have a gay male friend, ask him to help you through it.

Answer 6

:) Look...maybe ur 'gay' feeings r brought on self consiously....hard to explain, when I see a pretty girl, I can say, oh shes pretty, or ht or w/e, it doesnt make me bi or lesbion or anything, it doesnt even make me bi curiouse....but still, if u r so worried, first thing there is nothing wronge wit being bi or gay second of all, if ur still concerned, just sit back and let ur feelings go there way, and dont be so concerned.... :)
Heterosexual. People who are heterosexual are romantically and physically attracted to members of the opposite sex: Heterosexual males are attracted to females, and heterosexual females are attracted to males. Heterosexuals are sometimes called "straight."
Homosexual. People who are homosexual are romantically and physically attracted to people of the same sex: Females who are attracted to other females are lesbian; males who are attracted to other males are often known as gay. (The term gay is sometimes also used to describe homosexual individuals of either gender.)
Bisexual. People who are bisexual are romantically and physically attracted to members of both sexes.

Answer 7

Oh geez get ahold of yourself man, go get some choochie from a honey and you will remember why your straight. If your so gullable as to be made gay by a cartoon then you deserve to be the catcher in a gay relationship. Their is no such thing as bi its a pathetic ploy to legitamize a life style with no convictions

Answer 8

What does it matter? Why the need for labels? It's perfectly normal to have mixed or confused feelings. It doesn't necessarily "mean" anything. It just is.

Dont listen to these bozos who have nothing better to do than harass people who really have questions they want answered.

Relax, you will figure it out in time..

Answer 9

Your feelings are perfectly natural! What i would do is just experiment with liking both sexes! Theres nothing wrong with that!;; :]

Answer 10

you're just spending too much time on Y! Answers. go beat off and drink some beer.