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Ok. There's this guy at my school that I really like (lets call him guy #1). I've went out with him two times before and each time I broke-up with him for another guy (lets call him guy #2)... the same guy both times! Guy #2 is a total jerk unlike guy #1... the only problem is guy #2 has this charm on me that i sometimes can't resist. I told guy #1 that I still have feelings for him, and he said that he didn't want to go out with me again. I lied and told him that i didn't want to go out with him either and that i just wante him to know how i felt. I am usually pretty good at telling when a guy likes me, and guy #1 exhibits ALL the signs, plus more! He talks to me, flirts with me, sits next to me at lunch, and even looked jealous when i tried to put lip gloss on another guy! I just don't know what to do though, because he says that he doesn't like me anymore... I've been a jerk in the past, and i no that i don't deserve him, but how do i tell if he still likes me? Will he ever?

2007-02-07 11:57:59 · 24 answers · asked by Isabelle Lightwood 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

24 answers

Talk to him and ask him

2007-02-07 12:00:17 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0 0

If he really likes you then he would give you another chance. BUT, You need to show him that you are only interested in him, and not flirt with other guys. You hurt his pride, and to a guy that's a big deal. Just don't flirt with other guys and make sure that you don't go out with other guys. Maybe you should decide if you like him enough to wait for him to ask you out this time. :) Good Luck!

2007-02-07 20:02:26 · answer #2 · answered by Diniecita 2 · 0 0

I agree with Brianne a.k.a Marajade....

He doesn't want to get hurt again. You have to move on with your life, and you don't even know if he really does like you. I've never seen really the difference between talking and flirting, so....what you may think is flirting is just a random conversation to him. Who did you try and put lip gloss on?Why wasn't I there for it????

LoL....

Just wait it out; he'll come back to you....

2007-02-07 21:54:52 · answer #3 · answered by i6am6satan6 2 · 0 0

I am just wondering, when you study? Or how much of your energy you put into your schooling, because to be honest you are wasting too much time, worrying about things that should not be your number one priority. You sound a little too young for a love triangle, take some time off, relax your mind and focus on other things for a change.

2007-02-07 20:03:18 · answer #4 · answered by beygrl 4 · 0 0

Okay first off anytime a guy likes you u dump him not only once but twice hes ALWAYS goign to like you. He said he didnt want to date you because you were saying you had feelings for the other guy if he was like Yeah i wanna date you when you said you had feelings for the other guy you could easily blow him off but he thinks that if you 2 keep talking or w/e an he plays the "he doesnt want you game" Than you will realize how sweet he is an eventually like him BINGO YOUR IN!~!!

2007-02-07 20:01:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I doubt it. If you liked him as much as you say that you did, you wouldn't have screwed him over multiple times. Luckily for you it sounds like you don't have an issue getting guys, so you'll probably find someone else......no problem. Unfortunately for you........ if you don't slow down you WILL be visiting a doctor more than necessary.......if you catch my drift. So yeah, you might get him to like you again, but save yourself and that poor guy by asking if you really care.

2007-02-07 20:10:35 · answer #6 · answered by Shariff J 2 · 0 0

i know how that is ... i had a man that i was with 2 yrs n cheated on him for some other dude that knew how to sweet talk me into liking him ... my man still wanted me even after i cheated on him... i didnt know who i wanted n was playin around for a while..
after alot of thinkin... i stayed with my man...
i think all u need to do is show him u like him n want him...
if he really wants u after u prove to him u like him... u got a winner
but girl... u gotta quit playin with him... u could have a good thing... never leave a good thing for sumthin u dont know is so good... make up ur mind on what u want ... and show that person hes what u want n u will do anything to get him to be with u
...good luck...

2007-02-07 20:05:21 · answer #7 · answered by 07Navy_Linnie17 1 · 0 0

That was somewhat hard to understand but from what I can see I think you are right. You have been an *** hole towards him so mabey you should make it up to him and if you want to tell if he still likes you or not then observe! If he doesnt like you then try to make it up to win his heart back again.

2007-02-07 20:04:30 · answer #8 · answered by TomBoy 360 1 · 0 0

well you have been a jerk got it right, now he's been the jerk, i you gonna stand there and let two jerks be away from each other, go for him tell him how you feel, get jerk up together totally deserved each other.

2007-02-07 20:04:22 · answer #9 · answered by celi 5 · 0 0

i dont know you seem to change your mind pretty quickly. he still likes you but he doesnt want to get hurt and he is to embarressed to tell you he does. since you broke up with him twice for the same quy. i wouldnt trust you. you can ask him again it may sound stupid but you already went out with him twice. but you should probably hook him up with someone else you he wont think about you as much.

2007-02-07 20:03:13 · answer #10 · answered by hjrstjrj 1 · 0 0

It sounds like you know that he likes you, but you also sound like a flirt and you're right, you don't deserve him. You've let him down twice in the past, and if he's smart, he'll stay away from you. You sound like someone who just wants what they can't have...deal with it.

2007-02-07 20:02:25 · answer #11 · answered by Kailani21 2 · 0 0

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