I have run out of ideas. My parents don't help and she's been hanging-out with a pot-head.(You can tell.)
2007-02-07 11:51:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Food & Drink ➔ Beer, Wine & Spirits
Well.. tough love is what i say. If ur really her friend and ur willing to sacrafice for her, then ya just gotta give her a good ol' kick in the a-s-s and get her the hell away from the people she's doing it with. If she gets pisses at u, then u gotta just grudge through it. It sounds easy, but i know, my mom is an alchaholic, and i've been through it all. Also please note that all this ain't gonna happen over-night. If she's been doing it for a while, it could take a while. And also ignore that dumb a-s-s bimbo who told u to join her. Trust me it leads to nothing but trouble and it could really screw up ur life & other people's lives. Also you really, really don't need to get the authorities involved, that just complicates things more, use them as a last, and i mean LAST resort. Also get other friends to help u in what ur trying to do. And believe me, she'll wanna listen to u more than her parents cuz ur closest to her age and know what she's going through more.
2007-02-07 12:14:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are truly your friend and you see they are going down the wrong path, talk to them about it first. If they don't respond, talk to their parents. They may not be your friend after that, but eventually they will thank you. You don't need friends that are doing things that will make you uncomfortable or try to get you to join in with them.
There are much better friends out there for you! Keep this in mind, many people, when they grow up and get older, cannot remember, or even still speak to friends they went to high school with. I speak to one...it is the one that got me away from the group of "pot-heads" that I was hanging out with in high school. Hang in there and good luck!
2007-02-07 12:15:39 · answer #2 · answered by concerned 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sound like you need to sit down with your friend and tell them you are worried. Tell them how you are feeling and that you want to find out why they are doing these things. Your friend may be dealing with a lot of issues right now. Allthough, I am curious as to this pot-head friend. You say you can tell, but you should never make a judgement like that unless you know for sure.
2007-02-07 12:00:44 · answer #3 · answered by 37 weeks with twins! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend is getting into unhealthy habits like smoking and drinking, you should talk to them. Let them know how you feel. If they won't listen and they are drinking, smoking, and hanging out with bad people then they probably aren't the best person to be hanging out with.
2007-02-07 12:07:45 · answer #4 · answered by Cat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first tell her u can die from it and if she lives with her friends then tell her that if she doesnt stop smoking that u wont hang out with her and if u guys are really good friends she should stop. tell her she has a good life ahead of her if she stops it would help her if she wants a job becuz most people dont drunks dont get a job becuz they well alway call of so they can get drunk more.
2007-02-08 03:02:44 · answer #5 · answered by kiki m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless this is a very special friend I say MOVE ON, you don't need the hassle.
2007-02-07 12:23:35 · answer #6 · answered by P.A.M. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her parents or a counselor in school, better to save a life than hide someones secret, get back with us and fill us in on what happens next......
2007-02-07 11:58:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the authorities. It's what They are there for.
2007-02-07 11:54:59 · answer #8 · answered by Ashleigh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join Her!!!
2007-02-07 11:59:46 · answer #9 · answered by TEE 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋