ok so this guy told me he loved me and i feel the same way about him. but last month while he was walking home from school my friend saw him with a year older girl. they were holding hands and hugging. should i ask him about it, or let it go
2007-02-07 11:35:55 · 27 answers · asked by lollipop_12321 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but babydoll, i know the girl
2007-02-07 11:49:18 · update #1
i just figured it out ten minutes ago
2007-02-07 11:50:57 · update #2
Talk to him about it, definitely. You can't let it go, it'll bother you and it might be serious.
Another thing- How old are you? Forgive me if I'm wrong, but you sound young (early to late teens?)
If you are a teenager, keep in mind that "love" is how you interpret it. Most people don't realize what love is until they've dated someone for years, and are well into their twenties. Also, guys "love" a lot of things. I love potato chips. He might not have taken it as seriously as you did.
2007-02-07 11:47:03 · answer #1 · answered by Mike R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me, i would have a neutral friend follow them home or something to find out if it was something romantic.
Although holding hands is a sign of romantic affection, it doesnt have to be
the hugging, well, i have a girlfriend and i hug other girls, and there is nothing going on with me and them
so pretty much try to find out through a friend, but dont bring it up or do anything like that yourself unless you see something more definitive.
asking proves nothing because as a guy i know that guys lie about stuff like that when they are put on the spot
2007-02-07 11:40:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him about if! If they were just walking together than let it go.But if your going out with someone you should not be holding hands and hugging another girl. Confront him about it and judge his reaction to know if it was innocent or not. If he gets angry, defensive, or stumbles over his words trying to think of an excuse he's probably up to something. Don't start accusing him right away just simply ask him.
2007-02-07 11:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by Love <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could ask him about it but I doubt he will tell you the truth... If you let it go he will think that he can mess around with other girls and get away with it. If he loved you as much as he says he does it would not have happened!!! If you trust your friend who told you this I would kick his butt to the curb and find someone who will treat you alot better and want to be with only you. But if you have doubts about what your friend has said you could ask him but I would be weary of his honesty!!
2007-02-07 11:43:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Say "Who was that girl you were holding hands with last month?" This question would have been more effective the day after it happened.
2007-02-07 11:40:21 · answer #5 · answered by babydoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question here is, why have you stewed about this for a month while continuing your relationship with him? You can ask him about it; but what's the point now??
2007-02-07 11:40:44 · answer #6 · answered by Terri J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this happenned before you were dating, let it go. It has nothing to do with you, and will jsut piss him off.
If you were dating at the time, let him know that hes a dog and dump his goofy butt
2007-02-07 11:40:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should let it go unless you know why they were hugging and holding hands, so you gotta ask him then let him and it go.....
2007-02-07 11:39:02 · answer #8 · answered by dillutedjuice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. It's funny seeing him get in a tight spot, or maybe your friend was just lying to get you to break up with him.
2007-02-07 11:38:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl that is your man you better gets some answers now!! **** i would of asked him the day i heard he was holding hands
2007-02-07 11:41:53 · answer #10 · answered by shn_rmrz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋