okay, this friday is the first mardi gras parade. it ends late and my boyfriend cant drive past 11, bc of his driving curfew. his parents are allowing him to sleep on my couch for the night and leave early the next morning for work. I asked my mom, she says its up to my dad. but im really scared to ask him. what do i tell him and how do i ask him? PLEASE HELP
2007-02-07 11:32:23 · 15 answers · asked by yahhahaha 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
go up to him and just tell him what you told me, tell him he can talk to his parents if he'd like. and if he gives you a hard time, tell him about (if yall go to the beach during the summer) how your bf will be there and sleep in the same condo has you. and its the same thing. This is a great way for your parents to have trust in you. Just dont mess it up. Dont go visit him during the night. stay in your room ,and have him stay on the couch. make it seem as inncocent as possible. if he says no, ask him how he will get home. & that he needs his truck in the morning. when your done, tell him you dont need an answer right away. and let him and time to think about it.
2007-02-07 12:24:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have your mom in the room and tell your dad this:
, this friday is the first mardi gras parade. it ends late and my boyfriend cant drive past 11, bc of his driving curfew. his parents are allowing him to sleep on my couch for the night and leave early the next morning for work. I asked my mom, she says its up to my dad.
So dad, is it okay???
I promise nothing funky will happen, and you guys can call and talk to his Mom too!!
honesty is best, and let your moms and dad talk to his moms!!
it works!
2007-02-07 19:39:54 · answer #2 · answered by Lilly 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to come out and ask him. Being a New Orleans native I know parades can take a long time and getting home can be even longer especially if it is on the east bank . You have Vets Blvd. traffic and New Orleans Traffic. Ask him. What is the worst he can say. No! If he says no ask him if he can bring you. I'm sure he will change his mind then. Good Luck!!!
2007-02-07 21:40:55 · answer #3 · answered by momof3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth. Make sure you inform him that he isn't sleeping in the same room. As long as you have everything planned out, and to let him know that you aren't one of those people that try to sneak around their parents. That is the best you could do and then it is all up to him.
2007-02-07 19:41:49 · answer #4 · answered by Nick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were your dad Id sleep on the easy chair with my shotgun pointed at your boyfriends crotch. He wakes up and trys to sneak away and I turn him into a girl. Just one dads opinion
2007-02-07 19:42:11 · answer #5 · answered by BIG-IRON 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can just say " Hey dad, Can my boyfriend sleep on the couch a couple nights?" That's it!
2007-02-07 19:36:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him if he is unsure that you will sleep in the room with them on the floor or something so they know that your not sleeping with him... it may help it may not the way my boyfriend started sleeping over was because he came over untill 10pm but his parents forgot about him and when 1:00 got around we just ended up letting him stay... but dont pressure your dad too hard your his baby girl and he may feel like hes loosing you to your boy PLEASE dont forget to tell your dad that you will always be his little girl b-4 its too late
2007-02-07 20:46:58 · answer #7 · answered by elf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask...I found that with my parents it was just easier to go ahead and ask. I also found that it was easier to get things from my dad. Like I said, go ahead and ask, also that leaves time for you guys to make more plans if this falls through.
2007-02-07 19:37:15 · answer #8 · answered by chaddysboo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Write him a letter! that is what I used to do and it always worked. And it also took the pressure off of me actually facing him and asking him. Try it I hope it works for you let me know.
2007-02-07 19:38:16 · answer #9 · answered by K J 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just ask him. There is nothing else you can do. Just be honest and make it seem like no big deal.
2007-02-07 19:37:59 · answer #10 · answered by Tracie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋