been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half..and we have sex..i dont feel anything..and i dont really enjoy it? whats wrong with me?
2007-02-07 11:30:01 · 10 answers · asked by Ri Ri 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not a thing ---- i suggest your boyfriend is not trying to please you as much as he should --- there are so many factors and most of it will only come with experience and time --- best wishes
2007-02-07 11:34:06 · answer #1 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, I know where you are coming from, I started when I was 16 too after having been with my boyfriend for 2 years, so I was ready. Hormones are annoying things that can change your mood in any direction, and I find that there are phases where I really couldnt care less about sex and would rathe cuddle up and chat and then there are phases where you're really in the mood. It doesn't mean that you love your boyfriend any less, it just means that your hormones are in a certain state right now that are making you less interested in that. However if you are on the pill, one of the possible side effects of that is the loss of interest in sex, so that is another thing to consider if you are. Don't worry if you 2 have a strong relationship, you'll be fine and if he understands then you can do other things and then hopefully one day sooner than you think - your drive will come back :-)
2007-02-07 11:40:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some females just dont enjoy sex
2007-02-07 11:36:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be having sex then. You are 16! You obviously don't love him like that. Have you told him? Maybe you should consider being single for awhile until you meet someone that makes you WANT them.
2007-02-07 11:34:41 · answer #4 · answered by lucki female 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You probably shouldn't be having sex so young anyway. You could be emotionally conflicted, especially if he has pressured you into it. There is plenty of time for you to have sex later on, you need to concentrate on other things now.
2007-02-07 11:37:34 · answer #5 · answered by InvicibleStar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you feel anything for him when dating ? Before the sex ?
2007-02-07 11:35:26 · answer #6 · answered by Cherry S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT'S BECAUSE YOU'RE 16! You shouldn't be having sex yet anyway.
2007-02-07 11:34:18 · answer #7 · answered by Meadow Soprano 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it maybe your just a late bloomer, female sexual peak isnt until 30
2007-02-07 11:33:34 · answer #8 · answered by bubba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dont do it at this age if its not really doing somehting for you
when your really ready you'll know
and it'll make all the difference
2007-02-07 11:55:16 · answer #9 · answered by WhatTheHell? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 16! Be thankful you're not driven to it and stop.
2007-02-07 11:34:08 · answer #10 · answered by Mom Sparrow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋