They won't let me talk on the phone to my friends (im not even grounded!!!) and that is my coping device I usually use instead of cutting. Now I want to cut myself really bad and I have no one to talk to. HELP!! (and I also have limited internet access time and it's almost up for the day)
2007-02-07 11:28:51 · 16 answers · asked by Dance Jenny Dance ♫ [Deadhead♥] 4 in Health ➔ Mental Health
This SOOOO sounds like me a few mnths back...i guess i do totally understand your situation. i used to cut myself a lot too....sometimes parents tend to be a bit overprotective(though their intentions are good the way they are achieving it is totally unacceptable). A VERY dear frnd of mine helped me out and she asked me to direct my anger and emotions to something more productive such as sketching or playing on some musical instrument. I startted sketching what i felt...at first all my works portrayed hatred, dejection, death and dereliction. they still do, but in a postiive light. In case you need someone to talk to try ur parents, i know this snds like totall dumbass advice but try it. Since they are the ones who are trying to change "your" way of living, maybe you should talk to THEM abt it. Dont start off with a revolting tone, it will only lead to increased amnt of tension b/wu and ur parents. Start off by talking about something casual, and maybe u two will get to know each other better. At this stage we wanna be away and have freedom(which i TOTALLY understand coz im 17). But sometimes coming closer to our family helps us. After all, theres nothing that a lil well worded chat cant solve. ;).
and hey, one more thng, i LOVE blood too....i still do. But try not to cut urself kay? :). im sure that there are LOADS of people who dont want u hurt or emotionally disturbed. these things will lead to huge problems later even though at present they are the most relieving solutions.
In case you wanna talk please do feel free to mail me..
besta luk madamme!!
try not to cut urself!!
2007-02-07 19:06:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
One of my best friends did just that very thing when we were 18. I'm 37 now and I think he would be so disappointed to know what he would have missed in the years since. He had more people who cared about him than he ever could have known and I bet you do too. Hang in there, confide in your friends, and think of all you could miss out on. If that does not help enough then seek out the help you need but don't put your friends through that kind of pain. It doesn't go away.
2007-02-07 11:54:47 · answer #2 · answered by Pushrod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it is hard when you are a teenager because you can't see that life will be better someday, but it will! You have so many people who care for you and just know how devastated they would be if you left them.No one has a great time at school or being a teenager, but it will get better. Only 2 more years and you can leave and do what you want to do. Stick it out, you can make it.
2007-02-07 11:59:01 · answer #3 · answered by Swanky1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I have been you i could get some sleep. in case you would be unable to nod off considering which you're actually not drained watch some thing on television thats humorous as to advance your temper somewhat. once you get drained flow to sleep and think of roughly all the flaws that are valuable on your existence. Write them down in a mag if that facilitates. be sure to sleep an entire 8-10 hours so which you're totally rested. once you awaken, talk to your mothers and dads related to the way you sense or call an grownup or chum which you will have confidence. in case you do not think of which you will refer to anybody you be attentive to call a hotline. Suicide hotline facilitates those that are feeling the way which you're. i somewhat desire which you sense extra sensible. My pals mom killed themselves simply by fact they have been depressed and this in basic terms made anybody who knew her rather disenchanted. Suicide facilitates no person, that's lots extra sensible to stand your issues and artwork to recover from them. it would desire to take awhile yet you may get by it in case you seek for help. solid success :) i'm hoping this helped a minimum of in basic terms a sprint.
2016-09-28 13:59:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure your parents only want the best for you, at the same time I can understand how you are feeling. If you feel that you cannot talk to them perhaps talking to a counselor at your school and then arranging a meeting with your parents and the counselor to act as a "mediator" may help you express your feelings to your parents. Please do not physically harm yourself, find other ways to occupy your time - it's hard but only you can make it better and the first step is talking to your parents about how you feel.
2007-02-07 11:42:14 · answer #5 · answered by babeebluez73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to that god crap... Trust me, he won't help you. Your parents are your parents, and you are stuck with them, but as long as they are not abusing you, just wait until you can move out. It seems like a really long time, but there really isnt anything else. Wouldn't it be worth 2 years of hell to live 60 years on your own terms? Suicide seems so easy to kids... (Im 25, and went through it too at that age) Trust me, everytime something good happens to you from now on, just think how dumb it would've been to kill yourself Feb 7th, 2007...
Don't bother with the bible either, ive read it cover to cover, and nothing else makes me want to off myself more.. :)
2007-02-07 11:44:38 · answer #6 · answered by eldeeder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
other people should never be reason enough for you to kill yourself or even cut yourself. just control your temper and learn to exist happily in your condition of no phones while you're grounded. or ask for less stringent terms for being grounded.
2007-02-07 12:09:28 · answer #7 · answered by car of boat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents and tell them they need to let you grow up. They mean well, just don't hurt your self, its a temporary solution to a big problem.
2007-02-07 11:34:42 · answer #8 · answered by metalcow101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do your parents know you cut? maybe if you shhow them or tell them about it they might open their eyes and realise that you need a social life too....just remember though if you take advantage of them they wont let up again....so be straight...go show them or tell them and explain to them that you need to get some help.
2007-02-07 12:45:51 · answer #9 · answered by Jia K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to a counsler at school your parents cant stop you from that! email me if you want to talk, god bless you!,and she is right the bible can help you if you want it to its not the bible but jesus who helps you through the bible if your heart is in the right place and you have faith he will certanlky help you he's waiting with open arms to help you! he loves you!
2007-02-07 11:48:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋