does she like me?

Question

Does she like me?
We both go to GED classes and we talk once. We talk about our school history and religion. She told me she lives with her grandmother and she goes to this big church. She told me she used to go to private school and she had to wear a dress and she didn't like it. So she now goes to the GED classes. She also said that our class feels like it's summer school. Are conversation ended when are 10 min break was over and back to work. I was leaving early right when break is over. She told me she was leaving in 2 hours. Anyways She said she was a loser and she walk back to class and I told her no your not. And that was it we both walk away and headed in different directions. I thought the conversation was going good, but she was doing most of the talking. Why do you think she called her self a loser for? She sound kinda serious when she called her self a loser. Maybe she thought I was bored with our conversation. Next day in class I was doing my work and this girl ask for a piece of gum and she was behind me and she ask for a piece too. I gave both of them a piece and the girl i'm interested said i'm sorry for bothering you and I said that's alright and that was it.

Answer 1

Talk to her and ask her

Answer 2

She is very insecure and thinks she is a pest and that you would never actually like her so instead of waiting for you to insult her she insults herself. It is a defense mechanism. She had bad experiences in private school and feels embarrassed for getting her GED. She also is insecure about living with her Grandmother yet she told you quite a bit in that short conversation. It sounds like she could really use someone to talk to. If I were you I would pull her aside on your next break and tell her you really enjoyed talking to her and that you think she is a cool girl and you would like to get to know her better. Tell her, no drama and no big deal, maybe just grab some food after class. She sounds like she could really use a good guy in her life. Understand she is going to be pretty high maintenance and will need a lot of reassuring to build her confidence back up so before going any further I would be aware that she could take some considerable effort on your part which you may not be into right now. Think it over and if you feel she is worth it ask her out. She just needs to be reassured that you like her and that you don;t think she is a loser. Try complimenting her. Hope that helps.

Answer 3

Sounds like low self asteem to me. She probably thought she came off as a loser to you.

I would seek out more contact with her. Approach and talk to her more often and this time try and talk about yourself a little instead of letting her control the whole conversation. Ask her out for coffee or whatever floats your boat. If you are shy about it make it a study together thing. No heavy date stuff yet. Take it one step at a time. But don't wait forever to do something about it either. You don't want to end up in the "friend zone". Once you have been friend zoned you will never get out of it.

This way you don't have to worry about rejection either.

Answer 4

Well, since you complimented her by sayong she is not a loser then she probaly does. Any girl would love a compliment trust me I know, I am one. But before you ask her if she likes you talk to her some more and find signals of she likes you but on a scale 1-10 (10 being the highest) on how much she likes you I would say 8. If she really gives time to talk too you and stuff then she probaly does.

Answer 5

You don't have to ask directly. Just watch her reactions. A girl reveals more in what she does than what she says. Ask her out to do stuff, and make each successive outing more suggestive of a date. First might be something light like a lunch. Something more suggestive might be a walk on the beach, which is more of a commitment on her part. If she keeps saying yes, you've got a pretty good idea that she likes you.

Answer 6

It isn't that she likes you.. she OBVIOUSLY has a very low self esteem problem. She wants someone to be nice to her.. if YOU like her then show her what a nice guy you are and show her how she deserves to be treated. She'll soon realize how good things can be and you can help her with her self esteem problem. as you get to know her talk about it... not to soon though.. she could be embarassed by it all! 1 step at a time. say hi all the time.. around people so she knows you arent embarassed of her.. then ask her if she would want to hang out sometime.. .then go by the feel of it from there..

Answer 7

I would say its a definate possibilty that shes interested in you. Maybe she was calling herself a loser and looking for someone to tell her she isnt. I think you should keep talking to her, but keep it slow and steady, you dont wanna rush into a relationship when you're not sure of the outcome.

Answer 8

she likes you. ask her if she wants to go grab a snack or something during break or after or better yet set up a private study time and get to know her better in case she was telling truth about being a loser

Answer 9

Talk to her more. The loser thing was probably a joke. There are lot's of people who feel confident enough to poke fun at themselves

Answer 10

Look u nead to talk to her more often and find out what she likes and all that stuff. And maby talk to one of her friends and find out if she likes u. If u find any hint of her liking u than ask her out and hope for the best. If it goes wrong than at least u will have a good friend.

Answer 11

U can ask her urself and finally get it out of ur system that way it won't build up on u. I had a crush once and i waited so long that she got a boyfriend.