should i have sex with my bf?

Question

i really like my bf and care about him very much i am 22 years old and still a virgen , he is 25 and has only slept with one girl, i am sure about my feelings for him and trust him 100% but i still dont know if i should sleep with him? what do u think?

i really like my bf and care about him very much i am 22 years old and still a virgen , he is 25 and has only slept with one girl, i am sure about my feelings for him and trust him 100% but i still dont know if i should sleep with him? what do u think?

p.s we know each other for one year and have been dating for 6 months. i know he dosent love me but i know he truly cares about me.

Answer 1

nah, uve saved urself for this long and now ur just gonna give it up like that. just wait till marriage, its really not worth it.

Answer 2

does he care about you the same way?do you love him and does he love you?if you dont feel like your ready then i think you should wait.you will know when the right time is you will have a feeling inside that lets you know,you cant really discribe it.plus how do you know after you guys have sex he will stay with you,i dont know your bf or in anyway am i trying to make him sound bad but he is a guy and stuff like that happens.if you wait until your both ready you guys will respect eachother more,its all about respect

Answer 3

Virginity is a disease to be cured forthwith! Thankfully, I've only had to deal with one! Never again shall I accept such a flower. By the way: For God's sake be careful! There are quite enough babies and illness in the world.

Answer 4

I mean this out of total respect, but why can't people wait until they're married to have sex. Why do people use sex as some kind of tool to bring you closer in a relationship. Sex isn't something to be taken lightly, really think about what you're doing. You can have an unwanted pregnancy, you can get an STD, you can get in trouble with your family. Oh well, I hope you're listening, but for most people, I might as well be saying this to a dog or a mail box. Thanks for reading, and please have respect for yourself.

Answer 5

go with what your heart tells you i'm christain and didnt believe in sex before marriage i'm in a 7 month relationship and have slept with my boyfriend and dont regret it cause i'm not the type who just jumps into bed with anyone i love him 100% and trust him 100% and that what makes it right and true for me his worth it , that gut feeling is the key and you will know when it feels right trust me if you have doubts then theirs your answer.

Answer 6

You said you are really sure about your feelings....but I didn't see anywhere in your question that you mentioned LOVE??? It's great that you really LIKE him but is that enough?? I really like alot of people that I would never sleep with especially if it was the first time.... he does not sound special enough for a "First"

Answer 7

This is a decision that only you can make, but just think about it and make sure that you truly care for him, and that it is you that wants to do this and not him forcing you or pressuring you to have sex with him.

Answer 8

I would say you should. If you only recently started going out maybe you should wait a little longer so he doesn't get the wrong idea. But by the way you described the relationship it sounds as though your ready.

Answer 9

u should not ask if u should. when u r ready u will. everyone has a different outlook on sex. if u trust him, and u feel like u r ready then all that's left is........ the choice only u can make

Answer 10

yes, have sex baby. it feels real good. it's very passionate, intence and feels soo good. i am 22 also. my boyfriend and i have sex/ make love alot. just dont forget the comdons.. and if u wanna talk about it email..

[e-mail].. put your name for the title so ill know.

Answer 11

I like Kelly's response. Bonk him. And then you'll be at it with him day and night for the next year.