i am not friends with people online but i have known this guy for 3 months. he in the milatary and 19. i am 17 in high school. we email eveyday. but sometimes i feel like he some fellings. like he will always tease me and tell me i am beautiful no matter what. we both know we cant date and i am meeting him in june when he visits. he tells me he wishes he could hug me, wants to see me and had a dream where he met me and we fell in love. although we never confsed i feel like he does have some fellings. i dont know about myslef.. we have a lot in common like family. hes going to iraq soon. should i say something
2007-02-07 11:19:17 · 8 answers · asked by beach girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He definitely likes you and even though he has not said it outright he definitely has confessed enough for you to know this. He probably really wants to get laid when he visits you in June so he is setting it up for success with all the compliments and being sweet. or he may just be a sweet guy. Either way the question is do you feel it is worth hooking up with a guy who is leaving for Iraq? You barely know him. It will be hard to wait for him to return plus when he returns will he move to where you are or will this be a long distance thing? It sounds to me like a relationship is not realistic but telling him you have feelings for him and hooking up in June could be fun. Just don;lt do anything you regret and be honest with yourself and with him. If it is meant to be it will be. Don't stress. Just have fun and tell him you are starting to develop feelings if that is true. Try and get him to tell you how he feels.
2007-02-07 11:26:21 · answer #1 · answered by FinkDollah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever met him in person? With these kinds of things you need to be careful so I would just say something that kind of leaves him hanging. Something that makes him wonder and can be taken in many different senses. But then again, do you really wanna tell him that before he goes to Iraq where you may not be able to talk as often? Think about it and do what's best for you. I need advice very similar to this so if you could answer my question that would be great. Good luck!
2007-02-07 19:25:16 · answer #2 · answered by BluhBluh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have not met. You have started to get to know each other based on everything but looks and that is great. However you still need to meet and you still need to have real day to day contact for things to flourish in the right direction. Don't jump the gun on love. Enjoy this great friendship you have developed that could turn into more. Just keep your friendship for now. I wouldn't stress over feelings you might possibly have until you two have more real personal time.
2007-02-07 19:24:05 · answer #3 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUH he likes you. but the problem now is that he's an online fantasy and once you meet up... it could be a real disappointment.
Careful though he may be a fat hairy old 40 year old man who's planning on chopping you up into pieces and putting you in a garbage back and tossing you in a dumpster in the back of a mexican restraunt. So be careful
2007-02-07 19:25:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol calm down.Ok well since i dont want to me mean to girl so whatever but i dont wish to be good looking cuz i already is lol,Oh btw i dont need to waste my nice words for people who is not XP
2007-02-07 22:58:30 · answer #5 · answered by Chaos_dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he does. Talk to him and say something.
2007-02-07 19:24:24 · answer #6 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont know untill you ask. so dont be afraid to ask.im sure good things will happen!!
2007-02-07 19:32:38 · answer #7 · answered by shn_rmrz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and ask him
2007-02-07 19:22:25 · answer #8 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋