i am a HS freshman, india. and i asked this other indian freshman to turnabout. i didn't ask him just cuz hes indian, but cuz we're kinda friends. but he didn't say yes or no (i didn't ask in person, i friend helped me out) and now its really akward. my mom gave me this lecture about how it shouldn't be akward if i ask a friend, and now it is. none of my other friends have had probnlems like this if they asked a friend. now i wish i could take it back, and TB is thia wekkend and we don't have a group and im not going JUST the two of us, its more of a friendly thing. so idk what to do know, most of hte groups already have too many people and my friends have been really nice about helping me ask and supporting me, and id like this guy, as more than a friend, but he's being really akward and im REALLY regretting the desicion, WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2007-02-07 11:04:55 · 7 answers · asked by sexyhot_dancer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not in india, sry, i live in IL, USA, but i am indian
2007-02-07 11:05:26 · update #1
one more thing, i wasn't sure if i should have even asked him but now i feel like i did it because everyone was asking someone, and that pressure and i tried not to think to much because i never really just go for it and i decided that i should act on impulse because i knew if i though about it i would chicken out
y r brown guys so DAMN akward?
2007-02-07 11:08:41 · update #2
turnabout= dance (like homecoming) where we 'turn things around' and guys ask girls
2007-02-07 11:09:40 · update #3
Talk to him yourself.
2007-02-07 11:08:04 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that it's awkward. My turnabout is today. If you don't want to tell him that you think that it's awkward between you guys, then after turnabout, tell him that you would rather just stay friends instead of taking it further. You'll feel a lot better. Trust me. Good luck and have fun at turnabout!
2007-02-10 16:10:36 · answer #2 · answered by Chunky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him exactly what you just wrote, but correct the spelling, this isnt a text message. Tell him that you dont want this to be a big thing, tell him you respect him. He needs to know that you are concerned for his feelings and also that you dont want this to be awkward. Invite a couple of other guys if you want, and let yourself appear as a queen with her entourage of studs.
2007-02-07 19:12:04 · answer #3 · answered by willy p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...if he's acting awkward, it could be that he actually likes you but isn't sure how to act now, not knowing how you really feel. Can be very confusing...my advice, confront him. He's your friend. You don't want to lose him as a friend and you don't want to leave things hanging. Talk to him. If he's not interested in the dating way, then at least you still have him as a friend.
2007-02-07 19:11:49 · answer #4 · answered by cathy_cmr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is probably more scared than you are. His appearance of acting "awkward" may just be fear. Next time, ask in person. Just go and have a great time, and stop worrying. Just be yourself.
2007-02-07 19:10:22 · answer #5 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You lost me, I think go! and he is just shy but that will pass .
2007-02-07 19:09:58 · answer #6 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is a turnabout? is that some gay thing?
2007-02-07 19:07:21 · answer #7 · answered by mike Z 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋