I left my boyfriend cause I saw him kissing my best friend....?

Question

I will start all from the beginning,,,,,,I was going to his place,,,when I saw them(my best friend and him)kissing.Then the other day he asked me to marry him.3 days ago,I asked here,if I should say yes or no,and some said and some said no.Well I said to my boyfriend that I saw him kissing my best friend.He didn't know what to say,,so I said NO and + that I left him.But the problem is that,he doesn't stop calling me,and sending roses,writing I love you at cards that he sends to me,,,,,and he says that he can't live without me and that if we are not together,,,,,,,,,please help me,give me ideas,I am scared.

Answer 1

um...i say forget him. if he love you, he aint be kissin no other girls, especially your best friend. just because he said sorry now, it doesnt mean he wont do it agian in the future. did he ever explained to you why he kissed ur best friend? or did your best friend ever said anything about it? well it doesnt matter, the thing was, you witnessed it with your own eyes and what happened in front of you is the fact. so tell him straight up front to leave you alone and that you will not be with a guy who cheats on their girlfriend and tell him its over...

Answer 2

C'mon...he realizes he made a mistake and that is why he won't stop calling, sending flowers and so on...what he doens't understand is that those actions are not going to change youre emotions and what you saw from what he did. You have to ask youreself these things and if you answer yes...then get back with him, if the mojority is no, then don't.

Will you trust him again and put this past you?
Would he have told you if you didn't see him do it?
What does you're gutt tell you? Be with him or not?
Are you still going to talk to you're Best friend?

What are you scared of?

First of all he should be scared! Not you! You found out! You know he is a liar and a cheater! Once a cheater always a cheater! Wether it's 1 every 3-4 years he still cheats! Men are men, they really only crave one thing..."NEW *****". I'm just being honest.

Answer 3

Stay away from him and wait for the storm to blow over. If you have to ask on Yahoo answers whether you should marry this guy or not then it's obvious what type of relationship you guys had. And seeing him kissing ur best friend proves that it wouldnt work and that he's a cheater. It's a shame you and your best friend might not be the same because of this loser. Tell him to leave you alone and soon a better guy will be there for you:)

Answer 4

tell him to leave you alone, you made the right choice by saying NO, your better off without him, trust and believe hunni, guys are strange lke that, they say alot of things they dont mean, and especially if it was your best friend? if he really cared for you as much as he says he definetly would have never done that in the first place, im sorry babe, but hes no good, you deserve better, and it might take a while but you can get over him. well be really careful about your decisions, and good luck.

Answer 5

I hate to say it but i've dealt with more men like THIS GUY than you'll ever know in your lifetime...i seem to attract this kind of guy. Once a cheater always a cheater.

Just because he's apologizing now doesn't mean it never happened, or that it won't happen again.

Besides....the way most men think is...easier to ask for forgiveness than permission...

I"m sorry hun.

Answer 6

Its superb do not hassle about it, a touch kiss isn't usually regarded down upon in any respect and is amazingly worry-free in quick encounters. Making-Out on the different hand is considered inappropriate.

Answer 7

wow. this is what i would do.. i would question him and say if you really love me, why would you be kissing my best friend?! i really dont think he loves you, if he did then you would be the only one for him. but obviously he has feelings for other people too. tell him he had his chance, he blew it. if you forgive him he will do it again. remeber this.. once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater.
make the right choice and good luck

Answer 8

ok.obviously you love him that is a given.now, you have to know if you want to spend the rest of your life with him.well do you?.he cheated with a kiss with your friend.sit them both down in a public place and asked what really went down.decided what you want or don't want either of them in your life.then if you want to give him a chance i suggest go to counseling before marriage. it will help.

Answer 9

If you say yes, he'll think you'll do anything to keep him and he can do whatever he pleases without it upsetting you enough to dump him. Don't give him that kind of satisfaction. Just ignore him.

Answer 10

your scared!!? you did the right thing! how dare he kiss your best friend! ditch your best friend too! you deserve so much bette.r he is not feelign guilty for what he has done. who knows if he went further with kissing with her! please ignore his phone calls. throw out everything that reminds you of him. tell him to stop calling you. just turn off your phone! tell him you will get a restrainign order against him. threatne him to leave you alone! he knows he screwed up and you konw its too late for him to fix it! honey you deserve so much better! im 19 and my 2 year relationship just ended with my first bf first love and first everytign over a week ago. its hard! i wish i could call him and get him back 9things didnt end badly with us tough) but just ignore him! he misses you . tell him to have fun wiht your ex best friend and wish them a happy life togheter. he is a loser and you deserve so much better. lay it down for him tell him he screwed up and you re NEVER GOING TO GER BACK WITH HIM!. he needs to move on! he is just feeling extrememly guilty though. but he deserves it cause of his actions! just ignore him and go have fun! and find someone who will treat you right and find a nnew best friend by the way too .. grrr you story makes me so angry! lol take care. tell him to F uc k off! samw wiht your best friend too...