I am really sad, i have liked a guy for almost a year and never told him till?

Question

he was moving. I found out that he thought i was beautiful, and that he didn't want to start anything because he only had two weeks before he left. I have never in my life felt a connection with anyone, until him, now he is gone. What do i do? Will i ever get over him?

Answer 1

You will have to get over it as you will have no real choice. Instead of being upset for a long period of time, take this as a lesson. Have confidence and always tell people how you feel, whether or not you are scared to find out the answer.

Answer 2

Thats really sad but theres nothing you can really do about it, unless hes coming back soon. The only thing you can do is move on and try to find someone else. You will get over him dont worry, it may take time but be patient. It will all end up okay.

And you know what that same thing happened to me, my sophmore year I had a crush on this girl since I moved there and I never did anything about it and found out she liked me too when she moved. It just goes to show you cant wait to tell someone how you feel, or else it might be too late.

Answer 3

Chances are he knew you already liked him , but didn't want to start something new. I believe that when someone moves that shouldn't hinder the future. Do you know where he is? Do you have his email? Go to switchboard.com if you aren't sure. Where does he work? Can you send him a Valentine's Card? Find a way to communicate your interest in him. Let him know that you want to see him again if you didn't somehow let him know before he left. That is important..that gives both of you hope. Being with someone isn't that much of an obstacle. Take a trip there, spend time with him, maybe he will move back to be with you,maybe you will find a job and move to him. It is all possible!

Answer 4

yes you will get over him.
trust me!
i made the same mistake once
a loooong time ago
everything happens for a reason
and now when the next guy that you really like comes along
you'll kno better to tell him and things will turn out way different
I waited to tell this boy i liked him...then when he moved
i cried a bit
but i promised myself that
i wouldnt let it happen again
so the next time i liked a boy........
i let him kno.
we've been 2gether 3 years now and we're getting married.
so dont worry about how you'll look if you ask him out or pursue him cause honestly
i'd rather try than never kno
and sometimes guys like gurls they dont have 2 chase around all day and who play games.
this guy how ever let him go.
if hes leaving now
let him dont put in any more emotion than there already is or else is gonna hurt even more when he goes.

Answer 5

OMGsh I have had the almost samething happen to me. I liked this boy and when i finally told him, he said that the same day another girl asked him out. That girl was my best friend but i couldn't say anything because she would be mad at me. I eventually got over him and moved on to someone else, but me and the other guy are still friends.It might take you a few weeks or a month or so but you'll get through it. I'm sorry! :[

Answer 6

Surely there is a way of getting in touch with him? I would try as hard as you can. If you can't, then maybe life will have to move on. I've had similar things happen to me. I think if I had been able to be with a certain girl, my life might have turned out differently. But I was too young to have real choices, so I had to make do. Good luck, I'm sure you'll do okay either way.

Answer 7

... till he died- is what I thought it was gonna end. Well,... he is still alive. Write him a letter or e-mail him, if you know the address.... if not- move on. Will you ever get over him? You never had him in the first place.... but if it's meant to be- it's meant to be. Love always finds a way- true love that is. I was separated from my bf for 6 years, but we got back together although we were continents apart. We've been married for 11 years now.

Answer 8

This is so much like my problem. Will you ever get over him? Short answer, yes. What will you do? Short answer: Cry. Cry and cry.

I know it sounds rough, but things slowly get better. And once you're much older, and married you will get over it completely. But right now, it will definitely hurt.

In my case, he was going to another school on the far side of town. At first I tried to move on, but every guy I looked at I always compared to him. In the end I wanted him, and wondered what it would have been like to be with him those years that we held our secret inside. But that's over now. I'll never forget him, he will always a have a little place in my heart. But will I love him? Will I spend all my life tracking him down? No. Because on the bright side, someone out there is waiting to be with me, just as their is someone out their who is dying to be with you. It will be a bumpy road, life always is like that, but you will pull through.

Answer 9

no you'll never get over him or forget him at least , there is nothing you can do now but move on your young and just learned a lesson about time , it's always running short thats why you got to take advantage of the opertunies that you do have ,
you had one and lost it know you know how that feels you can not let it happen again next time you like a guy you'll tell him next time someone offers you a good job you'll take it now that you know opertunites dont last forever just chalk it up to a learning experiance kid and you'll be alright

Answer 10

that hurts, I did the same thing only by time I told him he had a girlfriend and he thought the same of me and I felt like I never had a connection with someone like I did for him before and didnt up until recently. i like him starting 2 years ago and still kinda do...sorry sometimes time doesnt heal or takes a long time