im 14 and i had a girlfriend back in november to about the end ofdecmber because she broke up with me. She was moving, but she found out she had a few more months to stay. i was friends with her for a long time before we were going out. she broke up with me and said she wanted to stay single, but literally the next day she decided she would go out with one of my friends. she dumped him and i for some reason still loved her. i kissed her a few times and she was my first kiss. She broke up with him about a month later because he was too forceful....not tooo bad. i was going to ask her out again when she went out with ANOTHER one of my friends. i knew it wouldnt last, but that day she told me she made a mistake in breaking up with me. i told her i was still waiting on her, but she couldnt just dump her boyfriend( i guess she learned). she dumped him and went out with this kid i met once who goes to a different school. shes still going out with him. i think i should just give up on her
2007-02-07 11:00:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but shes awsome. shes beautiful, not too smart, but shes nice and funny and is just fun to be around. i still love her and i use tht word strongly because the month and a half i was with her were the best days of my life, and she enjoyed them a lot too. shes not a whore and she hasnt been with every guy, its just most guys she meets are the wrong guys and she cant figure it out. i want to get back together with her. but i also wanna just give up, but it feels like i cant. i dont know what to do.
2007-02-07 11:03:44 · update #1
i also dont wanna go out with her because its cool, i couldnt care less what the world thinks about me. is there anything i should say to her?
2007-02-07 11:05:23 · update #2
should i tell her how i feel or forget about her?
2007-02-07 11:10:02 · update #3
You should be running with your buddies not chasing tail! You have a long time to go. Let this one go and do guy things. You will have other opportunities for a "love life".
2007-02-07 11:02:59 · answer #1 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in the same exact prob I am a freshmen in high school and 14 but my love life sux too. I was goin out with this kid but we broke up because he thought he had rushed into a relationship because he had just broke up with this girl before he went out with me. we broke u p on a Saturday and didn't talk till Monday when I found out from one of my friends that he was going out with one of my pretty good friends I felt like I was just gonna cry. I then realized when he broke up with her he didn't care about my feelings so I just needed to move on. To answer ur question the girl just likes the fact that she is getting all these boyfriends she probably feels popular and pretty. I hate to break it too you but she doesn't care about ur feelings if she did this so Move On babe!!
2007-02-07 11:12:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know at your age you feel like your love life sucks because there is a ton of pressure in your school (on all people your age) to have a gf or bf, etc.etc. But trust me, you have a long time to have a sucky love life ahead of you. Your love life has barely begun. Dont be discouraged, but dont go out with girls because it is the cool thing to do or because of hormones, because that is what it is at that age...
2007-02-07 11:03:15 · answer #3 · answered by Mo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, i kno how u feel, well, somewhat. im currently in both of ur positions, i broke up with my bf dated a friend, broke it off and got confused and was dating back and forth between them. but my ex now hates me, and i realize what i've done and lost. so if you really DO what her back. GET ANOTHER GIRL. be just her friend while ur dating the other girl. it'll give u a chance to get out and try other things. and it'll give her time to think of what she wants. if she really loves you, she'll come back to you. if not... then it's just not meant to be.
2007-02-07 11:11:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the girl you're tripping for doesn't know what she wants. You've already said the two things I'm going to say, one yes you're young to be dating and two it's in your best interest to let go of her. Besides, she's moving in a few months, right?
2007-02-07 11:04:59 · answer #5 · answered by angelgurl13191 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude shes a ho leave her alone, the problem is that you were probably her first or 2nd boyfriend and now shes finally free and people wants her and that makes her feel good so shes hoing herself out but she ll grow out of it in awhile but yeah dude move on i ve been there and if you think your love life sucks wait till you re 20
2007-02-07 11:04:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah just give up on her. she sounds like a ******. sorry if thts harsh but its the truth. if she dumped u for one of ur friends dont go out with her u deserve better. hope this helps.
2007-02-07 11:05:59 · answer #7 · answered by ~*~wElcOme 2 tHe bLacK paRadE~*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you sould move on and get over her! even if you are young she is playing games on you. she is playing severly with your emotions =[ she doesnt seem to care about your feeling but showing you shes been dating around your friends. MOVE ON! you are only 14 and you will meet alot more nice girls when you are older! who will respect you adn treat you right. a girl like her doesnt deserve a nice guy like you.
good luck!
2007-02-07 11:05:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give up on her! Go out with me! I look like my avatar, and I have a sexy body. What do you say!
email me at sexy_chocolate_life@yahoo.com
luv ya
I'm a 13 year old girl
2007-02-07 11:05:52 · answer #9 · answered by sexy_chocolate_life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I think so too. She's just playing with you now and maybe one day she'll realise she's lost a guy like you. Move on so your love life DOESN'T suck:)
2007-02-07 11:05:45 · answer #10 · answered by Lily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋