i recently been talking to this guy for a month and a half now ..and we have been out to the movies and what not...i actually managed to get a kiss ..lol..the thing is he is a very shy person...half the time im the one talking and he just listens and keeps good eye contact ..he flirts a bit ..but how can i get him to open up his feelings about me..i opened up to him about how i feel about him..but since he is shy he just smiles or just looks away..how can i make him open up people...
2007-02-07 11:00:10 · 10 answers · asked by gina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep talking to him and make him feel safe and secure with you. But at the end of the day you should give some time and I'm sure he will open up with you. And if you want a kiss, it has to be you to turn him on and I'm sure that he will start kissing you more frequently and that's for sure. Another thing you have to do is to show him you love him in front of friends and other people. Make him feel that there's nothing wrong with being in a relationship with someone. Then I'm sure that he will start following your steps. But all you have to do is to give him some time and those little "lessons".
Good Luck hun
2007-02-07 19:05:11 · answer #1 · answered by Falcon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like the guy, be patient and hopefully he will come around. If you like, try going up and kissing him next time you're out.
At least you can say he's a good listener. Good luck.
2007-02-07 11:22:26 · answer #2 · answered by mcnugget 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can only make him open up if he wants to so you may be in for a long ride. Be patient and understanding and it will hopefully happen. The way he is with you though may be the way he lives his life and you may not be able to change him
2007-02-07 11:04:54 · answer #3 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have to say i love this question because isn't most of the time, we are trying to get the guys just listen and here you have a guy who will listen to anything you say... but no i completely understand your problem... like every other person who has answered you, you just have to ask him what's the deal, and that you two are going no where until you know how he feels.
2007-02-07 11:40:59 · answer #4 · answered by sprtzgrl380 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Condition him to tell you his feelings by kissing him.
I.e. Ask him how he feels about you in a romantic way directly and kiss/peck him (depending on the intensity of the comment)
2007-02-07 11:07:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about how you feel just tell him the truth and I am sure he will start opening up to you which would be a start
2007-02-07 11:03:01 · answer #6 · answered by Miss M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like you found a good one babe! why cant i find one like that? how bout u get him drunk? or do something fun together like a dance class or a sport where u can be yourselves n have a laugh? or by chattin on msn or something its easier to express how ya feel! hope this helps :)
2007-02-07 12:02:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cant, you got to earn the trust time will tell, you have to accept his shyness and love it with him, just wait and see
2007-02-07 11:04:35 · answer #8 · answered by im2jaded04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry your head off. he might be trying to figure out how he feels. don't push him to much. Guys don't like that!
2007-02-07 11:14:43 · answer #9 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot 'make him' do anything,nor can you change him.Accept him as he is--or find a new boyfriend.
2007-02-07 11:03:21 · answer #10 · answered by MaryBeth 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋