ok i'm only young ok and i found out that my grandad is not my grandad and i am really cloes to him and i found out that my really grandad is with my nan now and i am really stressed over it and now i have so much hate for my real grandad and my nan they are now putting on my cards from nana + grandad i just rip them up and put them in the bin can you please help because i'm that stressed out i feel like killing myself and i atemped it before so can you's please help
2007-02-07 10:51:23 · 7 answers · asked by blond 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
First off killing yourself over something that’s out off your hand won't solve anything, it will just hurt the one you leave behind, asking them why, why didn't she come and talk to us so we could help her understand. Second your granddad that you are close to that's a good thing keep being close to him no matter if he not you really granddad or not, be happy you have someone in your life that love you for being you, just think about how you would make him fill if you killed yourself? You make your granddad fill like you don't love with enough to come talk to him about it. I have 3 nephews and 4 nieces and are blood isn't this same but I love them is if, I would die for them and I'll love the all until the dead I die, they know now I don't their real uncle but the love just the same. You can pick and chose whom your going to love in this world but remember one thing family is family you’re stuck with you got. I hope you fill better, and if you need help ask teacher in school or your mom and dad or how about your granddad I bet he'll always be there for you no matter what.
Keep on smiling. Hang in there
2007-02-07 11:07:41 · answer #1 · answered by choiceav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your taking it way to serious continue having a close relationship with the grandad u thought was your grandad and forget the other two.
2007-02-07 11:49:40 · answer #2 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just know that whatever you're going through, commiting suicide isn't the only way out. i think u should just talk to them and let them know how u feel. u can still have a close relationship with your grandad and try to get to know your new grandad. whatever it may be i just wish u the best of luck in the future.
2007-02-07 10:56:14 · answer #3 · answered by MMSfaith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you wasting your energy over something so simple? If the man you thought was your granddad is close to you, then cherish that relationship.
Stop punishing your nan. You have no idea what went on in her life so stop judging her.
As far as your suicide attempt...please, girl... That's just an attention getter. You might not be lucky next time. You might not be found in time to be saved.
2007-02-07 10:56:42 · answer #4 · answered by Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath and count to ten -- The man you grew to love as your granddad has your heart and he is lucky to have your love and you his.
Your nan has her reasons for this, sit down and talk with her - hear her side of the story and then work it out.
NOTHING - NOTHING is worth killing yourself over. This is a family matter - like you said your young - well this is one more step up the ladder to growing up.
Everyday we live and learn.
Good Luck!
2007-02-07 11:30:00 · answer #5 · answered by Only Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have 2 types of family, family from blood and family from heart. My dad raised me my whole life, at 17 I found out he really adopted me. Ya know what I love him more for that. He chose to love me like a daughter. He is my dad and no blood test will convince me otherwise. Sweetie you will learn sometimes the best family are those you are not blood related too. Let it go.... They both love you so much
2007-02-07 12:26:00 · answer #6 · answered by Petra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been in ur boat with my dad remember the 1 that trully luvs u and its just the right thing to do with the other g-pa just maybe let him try to be in ur life if u want but remeber the other he luved u unconditionally
2007-02-07 10:57:58 · answer #7 · answered by franke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋