Most of the relationships between a Guy and a Gal end with lots of misunderstanding bcoz of POSSESSIVENESS. After sometime, He or She argues / substantiates for the third person who is the Cause / problem in their relationship. When there is an arguement between the Guy and the Gal for the third person, A question arises in the other person's mind... " Who is IMPORTANT ".
2007-02-07 10:48:19 · 12 answers · asked by $$$ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it has to do with the maturity of the people in the relationship. If both people in the relationship are mutually respectful of each other then there will be no jealousy. People who are being possessive aren't really doing it because they are worried or concerned about the other person, it's usually because they have some selfish reasoning behind it coupled with insecurity.
That's just my take... I've been in a possessive free/jealousy free relationship for two years.
2007-02-07 10:54:31 · answer #1 · answered by Randomblina >^..^< 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone of us have different personalities. Some of us may have some similarities in certain traits but to only in certain degrees. But in general, everyone is UNIQUE. The point here is, It's not about who is gal or who is guy, or gay or lesbian, or old or young..... it's never an issue of who comes from what race or color or family of rich or poor.... It all depends on each of our individual, unique PERSONALITY. There are many cases when gals are said to be more possessive, but in most cases, the guys are the ones possessive. It never all the same for any of us. It may also depend on the chemistry of the pair like for example, I can be very possessive when I was with my first girlfriend, but after that relationship ended, my next girlfriend is now the possessive character..... What is important in every relationship is the fact that everyone should have Mutual respect, respect for everything that the partner is and isn't. respect for the self is also as important too. Honesty and faithfulness counts a lot in making a relationship last. A relationship based on sexual gratification will only last while the partners are physically gratified...eventually, they will leave each other to find another partner to sexually indulge them. But a relationship based on pure unconditional love will last even beyond death.....almost eternally.
Hope that helped! Take care
2007-02-07 10:50:37 · answer #2 · answered by beruto 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No this is not what should happen in a relationship. Sorry to say but your bf is dominating & egostic.Just cos you are in a relationship that doesnt mean you take the crap from him. You have your own freedom your own right to live and also to have your own friends.. i belive your bf does not like giving you space.. Y are u still there in such a relationship simply cos u in love with him? The reason why people are there in realtionship is cos they want to stay happy but whats the use if your relationship is giving you sorrows and pain.. and always make u remind that "I wish i was single again" I would say ditch this guy .. even if you talk to him about this he wont change.. such people nature never change.. so have your own dignity and self respect and make the right decision..It may hurt u intially but its better to be hurt for a short time than suffer for your whole life.. Good luck girl!!
2016-05-24 04:34:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in a relationship between a guy n a gal both the parties become possessive when the need arises. if the guy neglects the girl for another one the girl will become furious n vice versa. so we cant tell who us the most possessive one in a relationship. just try hard that the circumstance never arises between them.
2007-02-15 00:45:48 · answer #4 · answered by ahsu254 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guy will be equally possessive for both gals as boys have tendency to make everyone happy.
in this condition girl will alway compare between the first and second and will be possessive with the better one.
this is world and no one can change this nature
2007-02-15 00:17:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on each person and the security level they feel with the partner.Also the reason for such possessivenes should be analysed.If it is some view point or some comment which makes the other person possessive, it must be avoided.It is the love which makes us feel possessive about our lover.
2007-02-14 15:26:53 · answer #6 · answered by Priya Mahalakshmi S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely the person in ur life is important...but should u be fully dependent on just this one person to fulfill all ur needs they r already an emotional support to u but it does not mean that they should not have anybody else as friends in their life..........i think that would be too much and would be bad for u too as then there would never be a chance to be alone.......ok maybe in the beginning u don't want to be alone ever but when the relation matures u need the time n space..........so.........who becomes more possesive is really upon the indivisual nature but possesiveness is good but to a certain extent..........i think u must have faith on ur partner afterall this is the person who u have choosen to love!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-14 22:48:08 · answer #7 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well being on both sides: being a possessive boyfriend and being the reason for a possessive boyfriend i defintly belive that their should be some sort of poessissiveness cause right now im tryin to get my grilfrined bak and she has a boyfriend and she tells him we dont talk but we do so there has to be some sort of trust their but also has to be some kind of poessissiveness
2007-02-07 11:53:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either person can become possessive and clingy, it happens equally to both genders. It more about accuser's neediness than the other's alleged actions.
2007-02-07 10:51:55 · answer #9 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the person. If the person hasn't really dated much then t first they would act possesive. But it really depends on the personality of the person.
2007-02-07 10:52:07 · answer #10 · answered by Taury_girl_95 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋