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my son has the habit of throwing his plate, bowl, cup, when he gets upset, or doesn't want it. He does this in public places. How do i break that habit. He even throws himself back and kicks.

2007-02-07 10:43:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting Parenting

10 answers

Ah yes...I'm familiar.

At home, when he throws his stuff on the floor, dinner is officially over for him. Remove him from the table and put him elsewhere. If he complains that he's hungry later, let him know that breakfast is coming in the morning. It may be a rough night, but if you give in it teaches him that it's okay to toss his plate because you'll just feed him cookies later (Of course, at his age, you might check with your doctor about this technique just to make sure it's okay for him medically).

He will learn fairly quickly that this doesn't work out so hot.

This is based on the Parenting with Love and Logic classes/book that saved us when we had little ones.

The tantrums...well, I used to simply ignore them. My son tossed one in a mall once and I just told him I was going to sit down and wait and he could let me know when he was finished. I sat with 3/4 of my back to him but I could still see him out of the corner of my eye. He kicked and screamed for a couple minutes and then stopped. After a minute or two I walked over and asked if he was finished. He said yes and off we went.

2007-02-07 10:55:40 · answer #1 · answered by Shrieking Panda 6 · 0 1

Consequences. You throw it, you must not want it. Tell him in a calm voice when he is not enraged that "We do not throw our things." Then when he does it, calmly reiterate the rule, and dispose of whatever it is he has thrown. I remember throwing away a whole set of brand new crayons, and thinking, "Gosh, I spent good money on these!" But my daughter never acted up again, because she saw that I was serious once they went into the garbage for good.

2007-02-07 10:53:11 · answer #2 · answered by artemisaodc1 4 · 0 1

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2016-12-03 21:05:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

at two years old he is old enough for a 1-2-3 time out.At 2 years old, that behavior is on purpose. Besides.. if he throws it, then pick it up and take it away.. the end. He throws it, he loses it. Don't react. Get be calm and walk away

2007-02-07 10:48:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

first of all he will stop throwing himself on the ground when he hurts himself enough,,just make sure he doesent solit his head open,,,as for his throwing,,teach him that that is wrong by taking away something that he likes,,he will soon get the picture but also 2 is a rough age,,mine is now 4 years old and he still sometimes does the same and now on top of that he yells at me now...just have to get them where it hurts by taking away what he likes

2007-02-07 10:49:51 · answer #5 · answered by bannantynegirl 3 · 0 1

its a control thing when he starts take away everything in his reach explain to him if he is hungry or wants a drink he will have to ask for it if he throws anything else tell him he is done with his food and he will not get any more till he can stop acting like that

2007-02-07 10:57:24 · answer #6 · answered by debrasearch 6 · 0 1

My almost two year old throws all the time and I tell her, "No Throwing."

2007-02-07 10:51:56 · answer #7 · answered by lswalling 2 · 0 1

Everytime he does that smack his little hand. There will be no harm done. Like the Bible says, "Spare the rod, spoil the child".

2007-02-07 12:39:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

call Nanny 911 j/k look give him time out or just take his favorite things away from him but explain why you are doing these things

2007-02-07 10:49:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Ignore him, thats the best thing you can do right now.....he is only two, I know its hard.

2007-02-07 10:51:04 · answer #10 · answered by veronica c 4 · 0 1

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