ok I have a guy friend and we have been friends for 4 years. And I found out that he liked me, I have liked him sence we first met. But the thing is that I made a new friend this year and now she likes him, she told me so, I did not tell her that I really liked him too. I did not want to hurt her feelings. I know he is going to ask me out. My other friend told me that he liked me and is going to ask me out on V-day. and I don't know how to tell her that I would be going out with him without her getting mad at me and have a runied friendship. Please help!! I feel so bad and rotten inside. Please Please help me. I really really like this guy, he means the world to me. And I don't want to lose a great friendship because of a guy. Please help.
2007-02-07 10:41:25 · 3 answers · asked by BlueEyedBeauty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOu have to just be honest with your riend and say you noe what Bill (or watever his name is) just asked me out and i dont mean to flaunt it but i've liked since b4 i new him and I didnt want to ruin our great friendship with a guy and I really like him. And be sincere about it to. Then wenever she's around dont flaunt your relationship with "Bill".
2007-02-07 10:47:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would be a tricky situation if either of u had been with this guy. since neither of u have, your friendship should be strong enough to survive the fact that HE chose one of u over the other. especially considering the fact that HE has no idea that either of u like him. first u need to tell your girl that u like him and that you've always liked him so she'll know it. then if/when he steps to u, tell her. if she gets pissed to the point that she doesn't wanna be friends anymore, chances are u guys never were all that tight.
2007-02-07 10:48:22 · answer #2 · answered by feetal2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your new friend is a true friend, she probably won't hate you for it. I mean it's not your fault that a guy likes you, is it? Don't be guilty about it and if he asks you out, go out with him, but still, be very careful your friend doesn't get too hurt and you might want to write her a little note or something saying you appreciate her not biting your head off if he does ask you out.
2007-02-07 10:45:48 · answer #3 · answered by colette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋