my gf is gonna dump me unless we do "it" condum-less. need answers!?

Answer 1

Run Away Fast!! It sounds like she wants to trap you with a pregnancy!!

Answer 2

It got to be a reason why she is refusing, so be smart now, if it comes to that, then it is better to be safe than sorry take the dumping and dont have to regret anything there other fishes in the sea, to say had I known, always come when it is too late, so dont be pursuaded to do what you dont want, you can tell her also to go you will be just fine, be a man and stand up as a man.

Answer 3

Do you want to be a father? What will you tell your parents? This girl is bad news. She may be trying to trap you into a long term relationship, child support for the next 18 years and even marriage. Run, don't walk, in the opposite directon.

Answer 4

That's terrible!!! Is she just dating you for the sex? You should still tell her no. If she dumps you, there will be a better girl out there who won't threaten you, pressure you, and who won't leave you for the stupidest reasons. Why does she want it unprotected? Sounds like she is trying to trap you into taking your relationship to the next level when your not ready.

Answer 5

Makes you wonder why????
STD's are real..... remember even though it seems like just you and her....it is everyone she has also been with because STD's dont always show up right away..... you are playing with fire

Also Why,why,why .....does she want a baby? Is it a control thing???

If the relationship is and I am sorry for this word but shallow enough that she would break up with you over this ..........Let her go!

Answer 6

shes obviously trying to make u be in a serious relationship and since u cant figure tha out she wants u to be de father of her baby after 2 minutes condomless most likely shes gonna get pregnant! leave her she shouldn pressure u into having sex without protection i doubt ur gonna want a baby. . . seriously dump her.

Answer 7

Then enable her unload you. She looks to have her priorities all mixed up besides. possibility-free sex, is possibility-free sex. imagine about it. to positioned that style of rigidity on you is purely undeniable assinine. She ought to imagine it should be a stunning good idea, yet imagine of all the STD's that are available, now to not indicate growing mothers and fathers. She ought to sense that is an easy request, yet i ought to say that if she is judging your relationship in preserving with "condom or no condom", then extremely what precidence does she carry for you emotions?

Answer 8

That doesn't like a good girlfriend. How is she gonna dump just bcuz of that. That's pointless. With all the viruses and diseases out, I think its great that you want to do it with a condom. If you want to do it without a condom and stay with her go ahead, just get tested afterwards.

Have fun!

Answer 9

Folks who have sex can agree it feels better but it's not worth 1) possibly getting pregnant, 2) getting something from her that she might even be aware of, 3) why is she putting an ultimatum on you? Women can be sneaky (sorry girls!) and this is one way to get pregnant by a guy they like.

Answer 10

DO NOT compromise that. If she loves you then she will understand. If she leaves you, then your really deserve someone who will understand your concern about that. Now if you are engaged and been seeing each other for years them I would sit her down and I ask her why this is a make it or break it issue for her. Some women find condoms uncomfortable. You should try and ask regardless.

Answer 11

Dont do something that you dont want to do. You dont know if she has STDs or wants to get pregnant. I would tell her that you arent comfortable doing it with no protection and if she doenst care do what you know is right. Is she that important that you would take the risk of being a father just cause she didnt want to use protection