why do gurls pretend to like me and act like they want to date me but after a week they all of a sudden quit talkin to me and completely ignore me and wut not?
2007-02-07 10:28:03 · 20 answers · asked by Captain_Morgan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some girls just enjoy flirting. It's mean, but it they only do it to boost their egos and do not really want a relationship with most of their victims. If the man shows the same interest in her, she then stops the flirtation because that is all she really wanted.
2007-02-07 10:33:28 · answer #1 · answered by babydoll 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe because when you write them a love letter you refer to them as "gurls"?! It's only one letter different...not that hard to write girls!!!
Anyway, (prepare yourself for a bit of tough love) but obviously your personality needs working on. If they like you at the start but quikly get over you there must be something wrong with YOU! Common denominater here... So have a look at the last few GIRLS and find out what (not "wut") you did wrong and then change that. You probably find that you hold onto one a bit longer than a week.
2007-02-07 18:35:08 · answer #2 · answered by d_khar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your nice looking then after they meet u they don't like your personality.I'm not trying to be mean either.I'm just trying to answer your question.You might want to look at how u treat girls or if you are always bragging about yourself.Try with the next one to be concerned about them.Give them alot of compliments and act like your intrerested in what they say and do. Good luck
2007-02-07 18:38:19 · answer #3 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe ur personality sucks. After a few dates, they realize it does and move on.
Sounds like u may have issues hun.
Ask a couple of em, and work on self improvement.
Good luck.
2007-02-07 18:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i guy I used to know...he could get dates left and right...but they never lasted...
The thing was...he always talked about himself...
Girls like guys who acted interested in them not their selves
and girls don't like pushy guys either...
I'm not a player..But I dated enough and been with enough women to know..
2007-02-07 18:37:07 · answer #5 · answered by hononegah1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats how girls are!they like to play games with you!wait..an dfind someone that will actually STAY with you an dnot leave after a week or two!how old are you anyway, you look like ozzy osburne
2007-02-07 18:53:53 · answer #6 · answered by Ave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you flirt back or show that your interested? If you don't do anything back, they probably just think that they are waisting both your time and her time. Ask her on a date or something.
2007-02-07 18:35:04 · answer #7 · answered by funfriend2008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what type of guy you are. Either they got to know you and didnt like you after all (sorry), they were afraid of getting close to you for whatever reason, or you read them wrong and they just wanted to be friends but you thought they wanted more.
2007-02-07 18:31:24 · answer #8 · answered by Mo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have the same problem - after about a week they call me a pig
2007-02-07 18:31:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What did you do or say to turn them off? Are you insecure,complain a lot, aggressive, cheap, a whiner,a mamma's boy, smelly..I don't know. Ask one of them..really
2007-02-07 18:34:37 · answer #10 · answered by uuummk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋