liked this guy, but he was my *secret guy*. I didn't tell my best of friends, but I told them all my other crushes. I talked to him for 3 months DAILY for like, 3 hours, but last month, I wrote I miss you in a text because I hadn't seen him for a week, and he didn't text me back. I texted him a lot more, but he never texted me back. He never brought it up at school, and he stopped talking to me a lot of the time, where before, he was annoyingly close. He would always try to get my attention, and he even like, hugged me a few times. 2 days ago, I told my new best friend, which is one of his friends, that i liked him, but she didn't tell him.
Yesterday, we were talking about *the guy I liked* in class next to him, not naming any names, but still talking about him. AFter school, he walked up to her and said he knows I like him, and he's known for a long time. Kind of freaked me out when she told me. She denied it to him, but I think it was when I said I missed him.
What do you guys.
2007-02-07 10:25:39 · 22 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
think? does he still like me?
btw, I am SO sorry it's such a long question! please tho, answer it!!!
But I really liked him not only as a crush, but as a friend! Now, he won't talk to me for more than 2 minutes without it getting akward, and I jsut feel horrible! he had even trusted me enough to tell me about his old crush. Except, I told him about mine, too... He asked first When I told him I missed him, I didn't mean it as a crush thing, I just meant I missed talking to his face and all. We had a lot of fun in classes
Shoot, I forgot to add something. He had a HUGE crush on me!!! All his friedns would tease him about it, and everyone in class knew... Most of my friends referred to him as 'the guy that always flirts with you'
lol...
He's really sorta shy tho. Never had a girlfriend. Most people think he's ugly...
2007-02-07 10:25:52 · update #1
Again, sorry it's so long, but PLEASE answer it!!!!!
2007-02-07 10:26:09 · update #2
I'm 15 and I have am shy too, especially with girls lol. But I sort of had a similar situation, because there was this girl I knew and I liked her and all my friends told me that she liked me but i was really nervous to talk to her about it because I kept thinking that they were just joking and that she didn't really like me, but she did.
He is probably like me and he is too nervous to ask you out. He knows that you like him now, and he doesn't know what to say because he's probably thinking he will say something stupid or embarassing that will make you not like him! The girlfriend I have now is my first girlfriend and I was so nervous at first. You guys should go to the movies one night (just you two) and then tell him how you feel about him, and he will feel more comfortable around you. That's what my girlfriend did, we went to the movies and she asked me if I liked her and I'm like yeah, and shes like well I like you too, and shes like "so do you want to go out" and I said yeah, and now she is my girlfriend lol!!
Some guys are shy/nervous about that stuff, so sometimes the girl has got to make the first move! Once you do that, he will feel more comfotable around you again.
Good luck!
2007-02-07 10:34:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's kinda messed up :)
Now this is a pretty cold truth, but listen- er, read- up- maybe you were giving him too much attention. He could very well still like you, but it's possible you were pressuring him to feel about you in a way he wasn't ready to feel. And here's another truth, but this is the solving one: talk to him again, whether he wants to or not. Just walk up to him when you see he's alone, and talk to him about the way he's making you feel, and be completely honest. Say you wonder what's been going on and ask why he seems to be ignoring you. The sooner you get some answers, the sooner this mess can be solved. Good luck babe :)
2007-02-07 18:33:47 · answer #2 · answered by Penelope L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first i would ask myself why i didn't tell my closest friends about him. and if you come up with an answer about that one then i would ask myself what i liked best about him. and maybe be sneaky and start talking to him like nothing really happened like ask him hows life and hows school. stuff like that. and build up your friendship more than thinking about more than that. when it comes time for that then he might just come to you. and if you have already tried that then i am so sorry because that's what i have done in the past. and just remember it doesn't always work. unless you care more about your friendship than anything less. that i think should always come first anyways. and if you don't take my advise then i totally understand but that is just what i would do not everyone is the same.. you know what i mean.... WELL GOOD LUCK WITH WHAT EVER YOU DECIDE TO DO
2007-02-07 18:41:55 · answer #3 · answered by Sammi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a girl, he's a boy and thats how u act when u like someone...like children. Grow Up!!! Oh, and he has a girlfriend, they both just play together as a team to mess with your mind. Its very evil, so don't give in and pray for them. Maybe they'll grow tired and find someone else to bother. Oh and beauty is in the eye of the beholder, maybe someone thinks Im ugly but I dont care because it just doesn't matter
2007-02-07 18:31:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is dreding not knowing you liked him before because now he knws you like him , try o avoid teh subject , tell him you dont wnat this to get in the way of your friendship. Try getting closer to him tell him that your sorry you scared him but menat you misss him by saying missing talking to him or seeing him cuz hes such a good friend , :) good luck , elaime me if u wanna talk about this or jus sned me an im!
2007-02-07 18:34:09 · answer #5 · answered by jessica93sz3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably thought that you were getting to know one another maybe even hook up. He probably has low self esteem and heard or saw something to make him think that you were either using him or didn't like him at all. That means all his feelings were useless. He's probably just trying to slowly break away from knowing you at all. Talking about another guy that you liked in front of him was dumb because in his mind this probably consolidated how he believed you felt about him. If you want to salvage it I think that best chance you have is to talk face to face with him.
2007-02-07 19:02:32 · answer #6 · answered by Annonymas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand that you like him a lot but maybe if he not talkin to you know more he probly lost like for you...boys like to have there space and by you sending him all of those text message he probly thought that you are the type of girl that he have to be around but give him a little space and maybe he will start to notice you.
2007-02-07 18:35:19 · answer #7 · answered by NellyPooh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, it sounds like he is just really shy. mabye give him some space for a few days to figure out what is going on. then just talk to him for a bit until he gets shy again. dont press him or it will be worse.
2007-02-07 18:30:16 · answer #8 · answered by Adam M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well since you said he was shy and you said he never had a girlfriend i guess he might be nervous and he probibly dosent know what to say if you ask him out so he might try and aviod you
2007-02-07 18:32:00 · answer #9 · answered by Arthur S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...that is quite a long post...lol...
I think he likes you but like you said he's shy and probably isnt use to having someone who likes him back...
I think you need to just throw yourself back out there and tell him how you feel...about everything...
2007-02-07 18:40:18 · answer #10 · answered by icingonthekake99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋