do you guys ever consider feelings? too many guys flirt, but are never serious. this is from a girls view of course. I want to know what you think about that. too much flirt and not enough actuall love. why?
2007-02-07 09:30:04 · 9 answers · asked by =] 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cuz girls are viscious sometimes. u give them ur heart, and they tear it apart! as guys, we dont like to feel like we been defeated so when the next girl comes round its hard to take her serious anymore. i know not all girls are like that, but cuz of 1 girls mistakes it gives all of them a bad name. i say this from experience, i gave all my love to one girl and she went and slept with other guys! am i supposed 2 love again? it becomes a grudge that us guys cant get rid of so fast.
2007-02-07 09:37:29 · answer #1 · answered by oc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's got anything to do with maturity as i think ts more to do with her self esteem. She may be feeling old and unattractive so she over reacts when someone flirts with her. To be honest no matter what my age is i would never flirt with another man in front of my boyfriend it is very disrespectful, for that matter i don't flirt when he aint there! A bit of banter is ok because we all like to feel attractivebut in front of our boyfriends... i think not!!! If you have made it clear that it is not to your liking and by clear i mean a proper talk about how it makes you FEEL not how much it makes you angry and pissed off then this is not on. A word of advice if you don't like her flirting then you shouldn't do it either as this just gives her an excuse even though she started in the first place. In a marriage/ relationship there will always be something that will bug you bout the other person the question is does it bug you enough to leave over if it doesn't stop?? Good Luck.
2016-03-29 09:58:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on the guy themselves, i am one not to flirt with others if i am not interested in any way. This is because majoprity of guys that flirt are complete and total morons, but if you find guys like me then we talk to you becuase we are interested. If i were the girl that ends up in a situation where the guy doesnt care and he just flirts, i would kick him in the balls 3 times as hard as my feet could shove it up........yup
2007-02-07 09:35:15 · answer #3 · answered by Romeo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally love flirting with girls because its fun to see if they like you and if they do i would then try to take it Little farther after i get there i us ally ask if they want to go out... they say yes then were both happy if not i try flirting again...
2007-02-07 09:37:45 · answer #4 · answered by ubcool2ic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting is safer. Feelings are hard for guys to express (trust me I know).
Guys who have substance rarely flirt, they will be honest.
2007-02-07 09:34:05 · answer #5 · answered by infobrokernate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well as a girl i like flirting but sometimes dont want a relationship.
2007-02-07 09:35:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls do the same exact thing.
2007-02-07 09:37:42 · answer #7 · answered by Perdido 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's how they are genetically made they don't care about girl's fellins
2007-02-07 09:35:00 · answer #8 · answered by mamama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
serious??
2007-02-07 09:39:10 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋