there is this boy and he keeps asking me out but i don't want to be mean and reject him but i don't want to date him either.
2007-02-07 09:25:30 · 23 answers · asked by Nae-Nae 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im in the same hole hun...omg theres this kid (im in the 8th grade *&* hes in the 6th) *&* hes rele sweet, dont get me wrong...*&* i have a bf *&* he knos it 2...but he asked me that if my bf couldnt go 2 the valentines dance w/him would i go w/him *&* im like well i dk...but neways, he kinda got ovr it after a while bc i kept tellin him "i got a bf" ovr *&* ovr...he still tries 2 flirt w/me on MSN messenger but i kinda got used 2 it...its just normal now...
2007-02-07 09:32:05 · answer #1 · answered by Leigh Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to go out with him, just tell him. Try to do it as nicely as possible, especially if you want to remain friends with him. Maybe tell him you don't want to go out because you need to concentrate on (school/work/other appropriate activity).
And who knows. Maybe later down the line you may change your mind about this guy (I've done it more than once). This way you haven't turned him completely away.
2007-02-07 09:34:38 · answer #2 · answered by Nooney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the boy that likes her.
How dare you embarrass me by posting that question on Yahoo! Answers! Someone that knows you could read this!
I'm crying now.
If you'll excuse me, I have to go jump off a building.
2007-02-07 09:28:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you aren't interested in a relationship with him. You need to be honest. He needs to hear the truth or he'll just keep asking. He'll be hurt initially but he'll get over it.
2007-02-07 09:29:22 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the kind of nice thing" hey your nice but im really not looking to be in a relationship" Always works for me! lol
2007-02-07 09:28:45 · answer #5 · answered by Shanny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you keep saying no, and he won't accept it, the only thing you can do is cut him off. Don't talk to him, don't see him, avoid him, remove him from your life. It'll give him time to get the message, and, get over you.
2007-02-07 09:40:40 · answer #6 · answered by JDA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not imagine it may damage to inform him your first call. possibly your very last call too in case you imagine he's not a creep. i'm instantly, yet when I were you, i'd attempt to get to carry close him slightly extra effective earlier I gave him my volume. wish I helped.
2016-11-26 00:34:56 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't leave it ambigous. Say, no, you don't want to go out with him. Tell him you are not interested in him like that. Then, if he keeps bothering you, you need to tell an adult.
2007-02-07 09:28:39 · answer #8 · answered by fifimsp1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well do you have a boyfriend if you dont give him a try it wont hurt you one bit it will actually help you so you are experienced with all types of guys! If you do have a boyfriend say sorry but I have a boyfriend.
2007-02-07 09:31:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you like being his friend, but you don't want to date him.
2007-02-07 09:29:54 · answer #10 · answered by ra63 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋