well i really think her husband treats her wrong and i dont know how to tell her she needs to move on always telling her what to do and whent to do it and is always hitting on her what do i do
2007-02-07 09:16:45 · 14 answers · asked by cutiepie17 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
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2007-02-07 09:24:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to make her think your judging her. Just sit her down and tell her that you are worried about her, and that you don't like how he is treating her at all. She will probably get defensive and ask you what you know about it. Chances are that she is too afraid of leaving him. You can tell her how you feel but she has to make the decision by herself.
2007-02-07 11:11:11 · answer #2 · answered by Yay me!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think your mom thinks this is right, then leave the situation alone. I mean, maybe following what her husband wants her to do makes her happy to know that.
However, if your mom seems like she wants to get away from the situation, try talking to her. That's when you get help.
So it depends on your mother. Talk to her and be observant. Hope I helped!
♥Johanna♥
2007-02-07 10:57:19 · answer #3 · answered by Hannah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her. Sometimes all a person needs is someone to listen and understand. Don't lecture her, she all ready knows what your saying is true. If your there for her and keep the lines of communication open, maybe she will come to you.
2007-02-07 10:18:17 · answer #4 · answered by TAMMY S M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to talk to her. But she probably won't listen. An abusive husband uses terror
and a fair amount of brainwashing to keep their
women from leaving. Try and call C.O.D.A
and ask their advice.
2007-02-07 09:27:38 · answer #5 · answered by cheyenneman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell someone, do not let this go round in your own head. Tell school counselor; at least there would be some sort of history and he/she will be able to guide and inform you.
2007-02-07 09:51:05 · answer #6 · answered by mydogmydog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can pray for her and put all your hope in God, and you can stop conning yourself into thinking theirs anything you can do or say that wil change the decisions that she makes for herself. my mother was in all kindsa bad relationships and made all kindsa bad decisions and it really tore me up my whole life. i just had to release her to God and in doing so release myself from the guilt that i was doing enough to help her. but the fact is shes the mother. i did an said everything imaginable to help my mom but she has the final say in what goes on in her life. God can reach her better than you or anyone else
2007-02-07 10:46:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to call the cops next time he hits her and tell her your feelings and let her know you don't feel like she is safe and you don't feel safe either she should make you her first priority, if not tell her you want to live some place else till she gets rid of him..
2007-02-07 09:30:19 · answer #8 · answered by funluvcaring 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TELL HER STRAIGHT UP I MEAN I KNOW IT'S HARD FOR YOU BUT IF YOU WANT TO HELP HER THEN THATS WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO. I ALSO THINK YOU SHOULD TELL HER THAT IF SHE CONTINUES TO STAY WITH HIM THEN YOU WILL BE OUT OF HER LIFE, SHE WILL THEN FREAK OUT AND CHOOSE YOU... OH AND ONE MORE THING, IF HE HITS HER THEN I THINK YOU SHOULD CALL THE POLICE A.S.A.P HOPE THIS HELPS =)
2007-02-07 09:42:37 · answer #9 · answered by Aracely 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theirs not really much you can do unless she wants to get out of that relationship, you can only be their for her and maybe give her some advice. Hopefully she will come around before its too late. good luck
2007-02-07 09:32:07 · answer #10 · answered by fallen_angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can try but she may not realize its abuse. some women just keep staying for what i am not sure but yes, try and help her but she has to want ot get out of it and i bet shes not thinking what is happening is wrong. they mostly dont'
2007-02-10 17:47:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋